Comments on: From The Message Boards: How Do I Tell My Little Sis I’m Not A Virgin?

By: Kitty

Kitty — Mon, 03 Jun 2013 02:47:06 +0000

I am currently still a virgin, and recently had a conversation with my boyfriend about the line I’m not ready to cross (The Belt Line, as my Mom eloquently put it). My sister is younger than me, and we have a very open and close relationship. When I have sex for the first time (I hate the phrase “lose my virginity”…), I will tell her and my mom, as we both have a very close and open relationship with her as well… and I know she will tell me when she does too. I feel like it is important to share this wonderful experience with your closest “sisters” (biological or spiritual) as it is a special journey for ever woman… just like your first period.

By: SueSukk96

SueSukk96 — Thu, 30 May 2013 20:45:19 +0000

About a year or so after my older sister lost her virginity, she told me about it. She made it clear it’s important to make sure you’re 100% comfortable with doing it, because she regrets having sex at a young age and not having it with the right person. I use her experience as an example to wait to have sex until I find the right person to have it with.

By: Ripley

Ripley — Mon, 27 May 2013 02:08:34 +0000

My older sister (she’s older by five and a half years) told me the year after she lost it. I waited a couple of months to tell her when I gave my virginity away because she’s moved out now, and I didn’t want anyone to over hear. Me and my sis have a really good relationship though, and we’re pretty close. Not all sisters are like that.