10 Tips On How To Make Your Ex Jealous

I read a crazy post on the Daily Mail today (no surprise there!) about something called revenge plastic surgery.” Apparently this is an actual thing where women going through breakups or divorce get plastic surgery so they can look “better” and make their ex jealous.


No, seriously, don’t. If you want to have plastic surgery for your own reasons, go for it. I’m not against you getting plastic surgery. What I’m against is girls getting plastic surgery just to try to impress someone else or, in this case, make someone else jealous. I don’t want to sound like a nagging mom or anything like that, but plastic surgery is a big deal! We’re talking about a serious medical procedure that changes your body forever. This is definitely not something you should resort to in order to try to make an ex jealous.

That being said, I can totally understand the urge to want to make your ex jealous – and I can totally help you out with that. It’s natural to want to make your ex feel a (giant) twinge of regret after you two break up, especially if he’s the one who dumped you. But there are much better ways to do that than getting surgery… so read on to find out what they are! Doing any of these 10 tips will make him so jealous he won’t believe he ever let you go in the first place.

How do you make your exes jealous? What advice did I miss? Have you ever done any of these things? Tell me in the comments.


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  • libertarianation1

    Best way to make an ex jealous is to become successful in a way that you know would make them jealous, but this may mean you need to move on. This is also good because it helps you get through the pain because your new success will have something else to think about. Finding a better job, going back to school, buying a beautiful house (if you can afford it) becoming a cheer leader, losing weight and getting in good physical shape are all ways to really make your ex jealous or get back at them for the way they treated you.

  • Rebecca

    I’m 15 and my ex boyfriend is 20 we broke up because his sisters don’t like the fact that I’m only 15 they said he had to break up with me or there were going to send him back to Wales!but I love him and my mum goes around his every night I normally go with her but I don’t know what to do?he said we need to wait till I’m 16 that’s in 9 months I don’t think he can wait!!!what should I do??

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    • ash

      I’m about to date my ex’s best friend (:

  • Maribel

    I had a boyfriend and I thought he was the one I loved him and we were happy and then my friend told me that he was cheating on me with two girls and I didn’t believe that and then right after our anniversary the next day I saw him French kissing a girl then I went home crying and then he texted me saying that were done and I cryed a lot

  • La belle

    I was a virgin when I met my boyfriend, bcs of d love.. He dis flowered me, n he kpt cheating on me with diffrent gals, n alwys f**king me, n promised to marry me.. N now he want to marry a virgin gal after spoilin my virginty.. What should I do?

    • libertarianation1

      Best thing to do is in your next life stay a virgin until marriage…..this one is done, you cannot turn back the clock and be a virgin now.

  • sara limbu

    i dont lyk boys

  • Jennique

    Felt so bad afta i found out dah ma bf has already engaged sum1 n had bin lyin 2 me even wen he nos dah i luv hm so so much n ready 2 b wt him,everythin started 2012 wen he askd me out n i refused him,2013 he km 2 c ma parent 4 ma hand in marriage n 2014 march we startd datin n i neva knew he was dciving me all d while jst 5months in our dating i found out dat he has already impregnanted a girl n engaged her n he kept lyin untill d girl texted me n askd me 2 cum 2 his place dat she lives der,i shade tears lyk a baby n wasted ma money in d hospital 4 treatement,n now i left him,here cums ma new boyfriend dat i dnt really luv n cnt tel if he truelly luvs me as i want n i jst resently had sex wit him n now regrettin 2 hav had sex wit him,nt dat he has left me or dumped me but am jst regretting

    • Meme

      Grammar, hurt my eyes

  • Amy

    My name is Amy. “I have being supposedly dating my first ever ex- boyfriend for about four and half years now”. What I meant about this statement is that, as far as I am concern it is three years we having being sincerely dating. On September 2014, I traveled to United Kingdom for a year to go and study a master degree program. Why my ex is in my homeland country, studying the same master program. I did that because in my country masters of 2 years could last for 4 years. My dad sponsored me to school in UK, in order for me to finish within a year and do my PhD program immediately. Though he started his master degree program for 2 and half years before I started mine. In UK, I make sure that I kept calling him every day, because he has financial problem but I don’t. So I kept calling him for a year. Skype was also used to communicate as well. While I was in UK a lot of my new friends over there kept telling me that my Ex could be cheating on me. Because I trusted my Ex, I told them that, it can’t be possible. Because I have known him for four years before coming to UK. So I thought of what they told me, I felt that I should test him if it is true, because we have never being distance apart before. So I told Him that in case he fined someone else he should let me know, and I do not want to be selfish. But he kept saying that I shouldn’t make that statement that is not good. But I couldn’t just listen, I just wanted to be sure at all cost that he is not cheating on me, in order to prove to my friends that is not true. So, I said that statement for 3 times to be sure and then I kept asking if in case he is having an affair. But he kept denying it. My communication with him seems OK why I was in UK. When we have some disagreement he was always calm, from the beginning. while i was the trouble maker sometimes. But we always reconcile in the end, whenever we have disagreement.

    But when I came back to Nigeria he suddenly kind of avoiding me by making a lot of excuses, we haven’t even seen each other, since I came back for almost 6 months now. I couldn’t see him because I recently lost my Mum and there was some responsibility to do, to solve some problems like legal problem. I got upset in the process and kept asking why his sudden change of attitude. But he seems to prefer to text me than even calling me. I told my dad about it, but my dad said I should just let him be. I was worried and I happen not to be experienced when it comes to relationship, he is the first guy I have ever dated. Then one day, we had an argument and he broke up with me, by telling me that I will not be a homely type and submissive woman, i make him feel inferior, i am authoritative and that is all about my career. And that he wants a simple home and simple life. He knows from the start when he ask me out, I told him my career means a lot to me and he accepted it.Despite my conditions i asked of him yet he accepted. Also That I am controlling him (yes it was the truth, I did that to make him a responsibly person) and now he suddenly sees that as a problem. I felt shocked I hung up the phone.

    Three days later on Facebook I found out he is engaged to another person. So I called him and asked if he is engaged and he said yes. That he is busy at the moment that will we talk the next day, about that. Then we spoke and he told me that it is because I said if he fines someone else he loves he should go for her. (But that was not completely what I said). So I didn’t beg him to come back to me. All I just simply said is that I forgave and I still loved him. And he said why am I saying all this right now, that it is already too late for that.

    But while I was in outside the country, I always told him I can’t wait to see that I have surprise for him to let him how much I loved him. Because I knew I haven’t given him much attention. He also said that someone told him I am not his type that he should let me go. I did a lot for this guy I paid his school fees, whenever he has no money, I give him money. Whenever he has problems I have always being there for him. I even slightly changed some of my attitude because of him and he knew all that. I really did a lot for this guy. Then he said am sorry, but we can be friends. That he really owns me, I truly meant a lot to him. And I simply said we can’t be friends and also he should never say a word like he owns me, then finally I said that all the best wishes and happiness that I have forgiven him. But couldn’t help myself and I cried why I was saying that in the process. Then I told him that he shouldn’t call me and i want to forget him for good. Then he said that my friendship matter towards him. I also ask him how long he started the relationship with the other girl, he said that it is almost a year now. I said if she is the one for you I wish him all the best and happiness.That was it. Besides i happened to know the lady, she sells top-up recharge card to people who want to top up credit on their phone.

    For 5 days we didn’t talk to each other. But he called me back once, but I didn’t pick his call. So I send him a text that he should pack my valuable luggage that I kept in the house while I was staying with him for some time before I travel out. That I do not want to come to his place. But he should do that between now and on Sunday next week by giving it to someone. Then I will collect my stuff from the person and I leave the place.

    I have already blocked, unfriend on him on Facebook and erase other contacts of his. I text him that I have a seminar at the university around where he is and I want to take my luggage along when I am travelling back to my destination (Which was the truth and it was a coincident). So he didn’t reply. 10 hours later I called him and he didn’t pick my call. So he called me back and couldn’t pick it because I wasn’t with my phone. So I called him, I was sounding friendly and telling him about my luggage and he didn’t say a word except OK and I hung up. I remember a lot my friends back in my homeland kept telling me that this boyfriend of yours have not being in school since 2013 till now. That the lecturers have being looking for him, but i didn’t believed them. While I was in UK. I kept asking him of his project, he kept lying to me that he has being working on that. Well I am glad he is happy with the person he loves and comfortable with. The relationship is not meant to be. Besides a lot people kept telling me while we are dating that he does not belong to my class. I know what I want but he does not know what he wants. Everyone knows I am the reason why he is responsible. Because he was also working while schooling, but the money he receives wasn’t enough.

    So my question is 1. Please let me know what is truly wrong in the relationship?
    2. This guy have introduce me to his family that he was to marry me?
    3. Why does he feels inferior sometimes?
    4. Why didn’t he tell me he was dating another person?5. why did he sounded that way?
    6. why he is it that each time he talks to me seems he is scared after he found out i know that he was engaged?
    7. I want understand his thinking both in the past and the present. The reason why i asked is because he hasn’t changed his email password. Because he choose to let me know his password.
    8. Then why did he asked for sex 4 months ago and even recently?
    9. Why did he asked money from me within the last 4 months now?
    10. Also if in case he didn’t arrange my luggage what should I do next? Because I know this guy for 6 and half years now. He is capable of doing that because he would want me to come in person and I don’t want that.
    11. Why did he accepted me when he knows the kind of person i am and the so called impossible conditions i said to him.
    12. Why didn’t he tell me that he is now engaged.

    Even he has asked me before that I should come and pack my luggage. My intention is to pack my luggage and move on with my life I don’t what to keep mourning or feeling depressed while he is happy with someone else. This incident that happened to me truly hurt me and I felt betrayed. And for him to do such a thing, I don’t want him back. And that is exactly what I told him. I did a lot for this guy even to please him. Even though I get angry easily I wasn’t that aggressive, but I could be. We have being friends for 3 years before he even asked me out. He knew me so well and my bad flaws, yet he asked me out. So About me telling him to find someone else, I know it could be my fault. I have already accepted and I am moving on with my PhD. Program this year on September by the grace of God.

  • Tanya

    People please help me! My b.f broke up with me because someone told him that i played him

  • Jasmine Robinson

    If u want to make him jealous so he’ll want u back if he broke up with u because his friends want him to u say to your self what am I doing he doesn’t deserve me what a jerk

  • loveriage

    If he doesn’t want U let him go coz U can’t change that character U hated overnight.
    someone ll treat u better. Love is all about understanding and patience. Jux understand that it can’t work out for U guys.

  • Jelly

    Making a jerk jealous is just a wasting of your time. Do you want your jerk back? Why? To heart you again?? Are you sure you deserve such a treatment??
    Your heart want to believe that he will never hurt you again? Biiig mistake, my dear ladies – it’s just a matter of time! Don’t wast your time thinking about revenge (making him jealous is also revenge!), instead, do whatever you can to get over him and go for a better chance, you deserve it!
    I know it’s very difficult to say that, but believe me, someone better is waiting for you.
    If someone did something bad to you, think about it, maybe God wants to tell you it’s time to say good bye. It’s very, veeeeery hard to do that (I know that from my experience), but this is exactly what is the best for YOU.
    Remember, keep dignity and self-confidence – do not humiliate yourself!! Jerk is always a jerk and he doesn’t deserve you! Go for your better luck and let him find what he deserves! This is the best revenge!