Can You Get Pregnant If He Ejaculates Near My Vagina, But Not In It?

Hi Heather,

I’m totally freaked out right now. My boyfriend and I were fooling around, but we didn’t have sex. I gave him a handjob and then he ejaculated on my thigh really close to my whole down-there area. Like, really close. Can I get pregnant even though he didn’t finish inside of me, just near me? Please help!!

First things first: try to relax. I know you’re freaking out and I can completely understand why. In situations like these, it’s really easy to get yourself worked up into a state of panic and that makes it hard to think clearly and figure things out.

Now, onto your question. Unfortunately, I can’t give you super great news here. Even if a guy ejaculates near your vagina and not directly inside of it, there is still a small chance that you can get pregnant. Take into consideration exactly what happened and then figure out your steps from there.

The further away from your vaginal opening he ejaculated, the better - if this dude finished on your stomach, arm, breasts or legs, you would have had an almost zero chance of getting pregnant. However, from what you’ve said, it sounds like your boyfriend finished really close to your vagina. If he ejaculated on your upper thigh, close to that area, you do have a slim chance of getting pregnant. Sperm can be strong swimmers and there is the always the possibility that they can make their way over to your vaginal opening on their own.

Your chances of getting pregnant increase as the ejaculation happens closer and closer to the vaginal opening. But something important to keep in mind is that sperm can sometimes even make their way through thin clothing. So if your boyfriend ejaculated on your underwear, don’t assume your safe.

One common myth about sperm is that it dies instantly the second it hits the air. I wish that were true, for your sake, but unfortunately it’s not. Sperm can live outside the body for up to an hour. That’s why it’s really important to be safe even if you’re not having intercourse – a lot of people assume that they won’t get pregnant if a guy just ejaculates near their vagina, but that’s not true.

So, what can you do? If it’s less than 72 hours after this happened, you can stay on the safe side and take the Plan B pill. If it’s been more time than that, you can contact your doctor or take a pregnancy test. Don’t get into full-on panic mode though – your chances of getting pregnant are slim, but it’s always better to cover all of your bases. And keep this in mind for the next time – if your boyfriend is going to ejaculate on your body, have him do it on your stomach, your breasts or your arm – anywhere that’s far away from your vagina!

take care,
Heather

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59 Comments

  1. avatar Kat says:

    Me and my boyfriend were having sex with a condom and everything, but he said he wanted to cum on my stomach so he pulled out and did, and when he was done a bit dripped onto my inner thigh and I’m really worried

  2. avatar Pearl says:

    Me n my boyfriend we were kissin n he end up ejaculate outside my vagina n dat rly scare me after dat i jst drank coca-cola am i safe does it rly help

  3. avatar kim says:

    Ok so we were fooling around and my vagina was sitting on the base of his shaft and then he came on himself. Can the sperm still get in. Also he came around my asshole while in the shower but i washed up immediately. Do I have any chance at all of being pregnant? I’m seriously freaking out

  4. avatar kia says:

    me and my lad was just messing about and we had a long talk about sexual intercourse so it led to one thing to another and when he was about to cum he took it out but still did it all over my private part, and then he started rubbing it in and then stuck it back in, and I’m really worried : / could I get pregnant?

  5. avatar Lea' says:

    Can I get pregnant if me and my boyfriend have anal sex but he release on my stomach or breast?

    I’m just trying to make sure… And does it matter if we use a condom or not /if we are having anal?

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