Can You Get Pregnant If He Ejaculates Near My Vagina, But Not In It?

Hi Heather,

I’m totally freaked out right now. My boyfriend and I were fooling around, but we didn’t have sex. I gave him a handjob and then he ejaculated on my thigh really close to my whole down-there area. Like, really close. Can I get pregnant even though he didn’t finish inside of me, just near me? Please help!!

First things first: try to relax. I know you’re freaking out and I can completely understand why. In situations like these, it’s really easy to get yourself worked up into a state of panic and that makes it hard to think clearly and figure things out.

Now, onto your question. Unfortunately, I can’t give you super great news here. Even if a guy ejaculates near your vagina and not directly inside of it, there is still a small chance that you can get pregnant. Take into consideration exactly what happened and then figure out your steps from there.

The further away from your vaginal opening he ejaculated, the better - if this dude finished on your stomach, arm, breasts or legs, you would have had an almost zero chance of getting pregnant. However, from what you’ve said, it sounds like your boyfriend finished really close to your vagina. If he ejaculated on your upper thigh, close to that area, you do have a slim chance of getting pregnant. Sperm can be strong swimmers and there is the always the possibility that they can make their way over to your vaginal opening on their own.

Your chances of getting pregnant increase as the ejaculation happens closer and closer to the vaginal opening. But something important to keep in mind is that sperm can sometimes even make their way through thin clothing. So if your boyfriend ejaculated on your underwear, don’t assume your safe.

One common myth about sperm is that it dies instantly the second it hits the air. I wish that were true, for your sake, but unfortunately it’s not. Sperm can live outside the body for up to an hour. That’s why it’s really important to be safe even if you’re not having intercourse – a lot of people assume that they won’t get pregnant if a guy just ejaculates near their vagina, but that’s not true.

So, what can you do? If it’s less than 72 hours after this happened, you can stay on the safe side and take the Plan B pill. If it’s been more time than that, you can contact your doctor or take a pregnancy test. Don’t get into full-on panic mode though – your chances of getting pregnant are slim, but it’s always better to cover all of your bases. And keep this in mind for the next time – if your boyfriend is going to ejaculate on your body, have him do it on your stomach, your breasts or your arm – anywhere that’s far away from your vagina!

take care,
Heather

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40 Comments

  1. avatarJane says:

    A guy touched my boobs for so long..he was kinda like sleeping wit me..but we were not having sex..Just resting. Could i get pregnant coz of that?

  2. avatarjessiev says:

    My girlfriend gave me a blow job, she swallowed, can she get pregnant? Im freaking out, should I move to Oaxaca?

  3. avatarNesto says:

    My girl was on top of me with my underwear on grinding on me like a lil foreplay on top grinding with her underwear off and mine on is there anyway she could have gotten pregnant like that?

  4. avatarSiddhu says:

    I have a dout can you help me…..plz

  5. avatartammy says:

    What if it was on you underware and did not go Inside and you had thick underwear on and it only touched it a little….What percent is it that you will be pregnant

  6. avatartamara says:

    I had sex with my boyfriend He didn’t come all the way & me & Feb But i came On my three day period but i been feeling Wired i been sleeping All Day Everyday Is there i chance i might be pregnant

  7. avatarThatdude says:

    Last week I ejaculated on my gf’s vagina, and she has been acting really weird. Did i get her pregnant? If i did should i move to mexico ?

  8. avatarPriya says:

    two and half months before,I did sex with my boy friend, his sperm touches my vagina but still i’m virgin only. Now can i get pregnant or not?
    Till i’m not getting periods.
    One more thing i’m getting irregular periods every time.
    Please help me.

  9. avatarKaitlyn Mills says:

    I had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend about two or three weeks ago and he ejaculated inside of me. Now I’m freaking out because it’s the end of the month and I still haven’t had my period. Does this mean that I’m pregnant? I feel normal and everything I don’t feel any difference.

  10. avatarblessing says:

    i have sex with my boyfriend few days ago and he released sperm inside me after that day i ‘v been sleeping every minute,seconds is that pregnancy

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