Is He Lying? 10 Signs Your Boyfriend Is A Liar

Sometimes your boyfriend might act a little shady or tell you something that makes no sense and you can’t help but wonder, is he lying to me? Catching a liar in action can be pretty tricky. Falsely accusing someone can start a big fight, but at the same time, you don’t want to seem too naive. So how do you know for sure if your boyfriend (or anyone) is lying to you?

I’ve put together 10 signs that your boyfriend might be a liar. Keep these things in the back of your mind, but also remember that trust is a big part of a relationship. If you feel like you can never trust this dude, there may be a reason for that and maybe you guys should end things. Also keep in mind that these aren’t foolproof – the truth is, there are some people out there who are great liars and are hard to catch in the act. But in general, these will be helpful for figuring out whether or not he’s a liar:

Do you think your BF is currently lying to you? Do you think any of these signs are wrong? What did I miss? Tell us in the comments.


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  • Jasmine

    Hi i have a question I’ve been with my partner 5 years we r high school sweethearts. We dated for an year and then we moved in together I’m still with him. I know he’s a great lyer he says that he always been tells me the “truth” even though I know he’s not because the way he acts he can’t look at me straight in the eyes . I know he’s feels guilty but he always denies it I’ve trired to catch him on the act but every time I go sit next to him he’s closest the bowers I always get the gut feeling that he’s doing something n if I ask him he gets pissed off n starts to argue. We both lost trust on each other. Are love is so big that we try to fix are problems or just drop it n let it go but now I notice he’s being sketchy he goes through my phone completely and he sees he can’t find anything and gets mad but if I try to get his n do the same thing to him he makes a big deal out of it idk wat to do

  • karen

    I really need to talk to someone before i start too feel myself go down hill, i have been friends with this guy for about 15 years now i met him though his brother and we have always had a thing going on but he had said to me once before that he don’t want to mess mine and his friendship but 2 and half years ago now he started a thing with me we would sleep together and get up too things he has kissed me and then keeps going hot and cold on me and he is now texting his sister best friend but i don’t think that is true i swear he is messageing my so called friend well who i though was a friend of mine he really is messing with my mind we spoke the other day about things he said he don’t want to give it ago and he don’t want to loss the friendship we have but if really didn’t want to loss the friendship with me he would of not gone there in the first place why is he doing this too me i love him so much and would try my best too make him happy at the moment it feels like i aint worth anything and i want too be with him so badly i feel broken really do he is my life and i don’t want to loss him i want to be with him so badly 🙁

  • Andrea Moore

    All 10 signs and still I try and let it go. He blocked me from tagging him in pics of our kids on fb. Says he didn’t block and instead of changing the preferences which I informed him was simple to do he instead swears off fb and asks if I’m happy. Smhl as if I should feel bad. Only 2months latter I see he has allowed his aunt to tag him in a pic,meaning he’s been lying. (How could he explain to his favorite aunt that he’s being fb shady) Then my daughter gets in to girls scouts,I say now u get to sell girl scout cookies at work!! Yayyy!! …for him to let me know it’s against the post office policies because it’s a government building. I looked it up right in front of him,he tries not to grin and says I’m still not doing it. Again,what story would he come up with for selling girl scouts cookies. I am convinced that no one in his job circle knows about me and my daughter. Which happend 4yrs ago at his previous job. 🙁 I’m such an idiot. He lies about where he’s going,how long he’s there. Money. Friends (female) his porn usage. Goes to extreme lengths to hide what he watches even tho he knows i know and that to a point,don’t care too much. However this behavior makes me question what exactly is he hiding…ya feel me? ..he swears I’m insane and make things up in my head. I need help. I’ve recently been learning alot about Narcacist and their behaviors…fits him all the way to the T :/

  • Gitona Catalaya

    Damn i deal wit all these issues except he never accuses me of lying but yup pretty sure he always be on sum bullshyt bout more den a few certain issues we deal with on a daily basis such as; money,manipulation, infidelity, drugs,lies I’ve been in denial lying to myself thinking he cares bout me n respects me enough not to ever make me feel so unappreciated n taken advantage of ever again n I still have no solid proof only my gut feeling but I’m thinking about my son or daughter that will be born in 6 months I love my BabyDaddy but I don’t deserve to feel this typa way about our relationship if I’m wrong n it turns out I’m souverely insecure n reckless as hell den I would apologize in person like a boss

  • sb

    Girl says she had sex with my boyfriend last summer. He has had a history of telling me lies. The girl said she had next with him for 20 minutes and now she’s saying a hour. He denies it and says yes he has lied in the past but he’s never went to the extent of having sex with another girl. He says he wouldn’t lie first off and especially he wouldn’t make me wait all this long time and then tell me the truth. The girl has had issues with me in the past, don’t know if she’s jealous or what . One thing that helps me to believe he’s telling the truth is that he always let’s me talk about it and say how I feel, a part of me can’t see him doing this but last summer was a rough one for us. We’ve been together almost three years and it’s driving me insane. The girl said she had fb messages but deleted them, why would she delete them If that’s proof. She said my boyfriend said we weren’t together, we’ve never broke up. I can’t imagine him even saying that . Here it is almost a year later and I’m still not over it. I ask him to confront her but he says that will cause drama and that I need to trust his word.

  • Shawn

    My husband left us a year ago when we had our last kid because he has always been afraid of having kids (so embarrassing). I was in a dark world, things did not go as we have planned when we exchanging our marriage vows, he hates kids and never plays with them even on their birthdays; he always wants to have me alone for reasons best known to him. I tried teaching him ways to love kids but he constantly keeps his distance away from them which made them to think that he is not their father.
    He finally left us to an unknown destination when he couldn’t bear with the pressure around him. I suffered and convinced them that their father will change to a better man and come back. This made me stand by my word because I don’t want to be a lying Mother, so I had to find ways to bring back my Boo as a changed man until I overheard a woman in a mall talking to her friend about a Spell Doctor called Dr.Osaz who help her sister get back her husband; so I quickly asked her if she can help me with the doctor’s contact if he can help me.Thanks to her and Dr. Osaz who changed my husband and brought him back to us as I promised our kids. He now loves them and plays with them. Dr. Osaz him a lovely Father and Husband. I am so happy that I finally fulfilled the promise I made to my kids. Contact Doctor Osaz if you are suffered relationship humiliation via: spirituallove @ hotmail . com

  • mz Hollywood

    I’ll ask mi boo about anything I be wanting for Christmas than he changes the story every time we talk

  • Aaliyah

    Should I be worried If my bf says he a really good liar ?