By: natalia

natalia — Fri, 24 May 2013 06:07:16 +0000

There are a few things here that need to be emphasized
1) you are mistaking fear for apprehension which is quite normal. There is always an element of anxiety when doing it for the first time or with any new partner
2) Plz dont make it sound like an ordeal, because it isnt. IT IS FUN AND THE MOST AWESOME FEELING.
3) Next, you dont have to feel bad for knowing nothing. It is perfectly okay. Just go with the flow, dont resist and try and relax. I lost mine at 12 and I knew nothing, not even the guy I lost it to and luckily he was a lot older so he handled it extremely well.
4) We are scared because of all the false stories about it hurting and the bleeding and the awful things that girls who havent done it, lie about. Let me reassure you that IT DOESNT HURT and the bleeding is tiny and almost unnoticeable. Just make sure you are really well lubricated and extremely horny. Engage in plenty of foreplay and oral and that way you will be really ready for him to penetrate you.
5) Don’t be worried about experimenting. Try it you might like things. Oral is a definite YES. Anal you might want to leave that for later. But vaginal penetration when you are having an orgasm is one of the best feelings ever. You wont want to stop. Dont worry about deep penetration. Let him go in deep if he wants to. It is mind blowing. Just relax, open your legs and let him slide in all the way.
So, just relax and enjoy your first experience. Dont destroy this beautiful experience by letting anxiety come in the way.
Also find somewhere private and make sure you have lots of time so you can explore and do things in privacy without the worry of needing to speed things up.
Relax and enjoy.

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By: natalia