Boards
I’m notorious for really stressing myself out, and it’s probably not good for my health but I can’t help it. In an effort to help with my stress levels, a guy said to me, “We really need to get you a boyfriend.”
Um, excuse me, I do not “need” a boyfriend. What I need is another cup of coffee , not a boyfriend. I haven’t had a relationship in over a year because I’m too busy taking care of myself. I had a sort of non-relationship recently that could have evolved into a real relationship, but it didn’t. And I realized it’s better that way because I’m still trying to figure out my life.
If you’re in a relationship or you want one, good! Relationships are wonderful, but I’m perfectly content being single over here. So here are 8 reasons I don’t need a boyfriend:
I Don't Like Getting Texts 24/7
Most people communicate by text-only these days, including myself. But I hate it when people blow up my phone all day. I like texting, but I don't need someone constantly asking me what I'm doing or what I'm eating for lunch.
I'm Busy
I'm really, really busy. Having to keep up with another person and give them attention is only going to make me more busy and more stressed out. I don't have time!
I Like Watching What I Want
I'm not much for compromising on TV. I like to watch what I want, when I want. While I love sports and Game Of Thrones, sometimes I just want to binge-watch Gilmore Girls.
I'm Not Willing To Change My Eating Habits
I eat cake for breakfast and late meals. Sometimes I just have french fries for dinner. Having a relationship means having meals together, and I'm not ready to try that new Chinese place just because my BF wants to.
I Don't Feel Like Impressing Anyone
I like to look cute, don't get me wrong. I mean, I love doing my hair and makeup for me. But I feel like there's added pressure of impressing someone when you're first dating them.
I Like Sleeping Alone
I am not a cuddler. I'm a light sleeper so I absolutely HATE being touched in my sleep. I can't deal with that kind of frustration at this point in my life.
I Primarily Want To Hang Out With My Friends
When you're in a relationship, it's difficult to balance time with your boo and time with your friends. I want to hang out with my friends. Like all the time.
I Like My Freedom
As a single girl, I have the freedom to go on dates with whoever I please. And I like that.
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Would You Rather?
Oh, this is so me! I’m a freshman and guys are always trying to get me to date them. In January, I even said yes to a guy friend of mine. God, did I regret it. I was super busy and didn’t have time to be nurturing a relationship and I broke it off after about a month. It was my first relationship and I hated it. I was so happy when I got out of that relationship that I vowed not to get into another one until I was completely sure I really liked the person I want to date. The friend I mentioned constantly got angry with me for not wanting to do “boyfriend and girlfriend” stuff like making out, hugging, holding hands and he accused me, several times, of being interested in my best guy friend (WHO IS 19 and in a relationship with one of my girl friends). He was so annoying.