There’s no one way for how to orgasm–but there are things to do to up your shot at one or multiple orgasms in one sesh! | Source: Shutterstock

How to orgasm is different for everyone, so if what you’re doing with your partner or solo isn’t working for you–even though you feel like it “should”–fear not. Just try something else until it does!

A new report basically says that how to orgasm varies as much from person to person as our fingerprints do, and that once we figure out all the ways we can orgasm, the more likely you’ll be to achieve multiple orgasms. And let’s be real, that’s one case in which more is definitely better.

Still, there are tips on how to orgasm that may well improve sex for all of us. One expert says toning your Kegels helps pump blood to your pelvis and makes your contractions stronger, which can make orgasms more intense and satisfying. Changing up how you’re stimulated down there is also crucial in how to orgasm–going from oral to hands to intercourse and back, or in variations, can improve your likelihood of achieving multiple orgasms in one romp.

Another technique in how to orgasm more often? “Peaking,” in which you and your partner get you to almost the brink–and then stop, forcing you to build up again and again. This trains your body and your brain to get into orgasm mode and makes everything feel better (though it may seem torturous at first to not just get it all over with).

Also important in how to orgasm? Knowing your triggers and routines. You know how when you brush your teeth at night your body sort of “gets” that it’s time to go to sleep? If you do similar things when getting ready for sexual activity (think playing a certain song, rocking certain undies, etc.), then your body will be ready sooner to make it all worthwhile.

And, of course, the most important part of how to orgasm: Having an awesome partner that you trust and being as safe as you possibly can. It’s hard to let go and feel good if you’re worried about STDs or whether or not he’s going to call the next day!

Do you think it’s true that there are surefire ways on how to orgasm? Do you believe in the “orgasm fingerprint?” Tell us in the comments!

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