7 Ways To Deal When You Hate Your Friend’s Boyfriend

Imagine meeting your best friend’s boyfriend for the first time only to discover that… you absolutely can’t stand him. Whatever the reason, you can’t stand to be near him – and meanwhile, your BFF is head over heels. You can’t help but wonder how an amazing chick like her can date, and like, such a loser dude.

Ugh. Disliking a friend’s boyfriend can be kind of the worst and unfortunately, it will probably happen to all of us at some point in our lives. You want to be supportive for your friend and her new relationship and her happiness, but how can you be when you hate her boyfriend? You want to be honest with her, but at the same time, you don’t want to lose her as your BFF. So what exactly are you supposed to do?

I’ve had more than enough experience in this department (my friend’s pick some real winners, let me tell you) and so I’ve come up with a few ways to deal with hating your friend’s boyfriend… because that lame dude is probably not worth losing your BFF over.

Do you hate any of your friend’s boyfriends? How do you deal with it? Would you be honest with your best friend if you didn’t like her boyfriend? Tell me in the comments.


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  1. avatarMarisa says:

    My best friend’s boyfriend is the definition of a lowlife dcik. He treats her like garbage, making up critical comments that he says “his friends” or his “family” have said about her. Every month I have to deal with her crying and being upset because he had made her feel like she’s less than what she is. He thinks because he has money he’s above everybody else. He’s called me fat and stupid and thinks my boyfriend isn’t worth anything because my boyfriend has to work His way through graduate school. But now she’s moving in with the a-hole and is convinced she’s in love with him. She doesn’t understand why I can’t stand him and it’s creating a rift in our seven year long friendship. Any advice? :/

  2. avatarandie says:

    ok by 2 best friends and i have been friends for years i cant even remember when we started hanging out but about 2 years ago my one bff started dating this guy. now before they started dating the guy and i were kinda friends, mostly because hes cousins with my other bff. everything was good but this past year has been aweful! he has been a total A**! he talks down to all 3 of us, especially me and his cousin, and acts like hes smarter than all of us and a know it all and more mature and superior when 1. we are older than him and 2. we get better grades than him so he has nothing to talk about!!! and hes soo clingy that its pissing me off!!!!! we cant go anywhere without him going, even if we plan it to be just a girls day he always some how weasles his way in with some stupid excuse like he doesnt want his gf to drive in such bad weather when the weather is perfectly fine and in all honestly quite awesome! he even managed to join our senior ag class when hes a freaking junior!! and of course he has to sit right beside me! i have to go to the library for lunch so that i am spending as little time as possible with him so that i dont blow a gasket. I try avoiding him as much as possible but its imposible because there is no such thing as alone time with them. and he’s so sang prideful that if hes a royal jerk to me and/or my other bff that he wont even say sorry he just expects us to forgive him. and hes so perfect in me bff eyes that she doesn’t even see it, and the worst part is they are now ENGAGED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! help me what do I do!!!

  3. avatarZeta says:

    my friend is in 5th grade and she has a 6th grade BF. He treats me and ALL of her friends bad not one single person supports her love for him and if her parents knew he was a jackass they would make her break up with him. He thinks he is a chick magnet and makes all these comments about how cute and loving he is ( the guy says this about himself). what do I do?

    • avatarok says:

      Whoa what you are in 5th grade and dating? Don’t worry you guys are still really young and her relationship will most probably end quickly so you wont have to worry about him for long.

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