Love is a fickle thing, y’all. It’s messy and complicated, but also wonderful when you find someone you really feel right with.

Most of all, love can be really confusing. So this week, y’all are talking about what to do when you’re in a relationship but meet someone else. Should you end your current relationship and move on? Or should you wait for your relationship to fade out before getting involved with someone else?

What did y’all have to say about the topic?

animperfectteen said:

If I was in your situation I would fast forward time. It sounds like that person makes you happy so always do what’s best for you.

flamingoccm said:

In my opinion, a relationship with a time stamp was over as soon as you set that time limit.

Go for the person who lights up your life. Truth is, you don’t know how long you have and it makes no sense to do anything but what makes you happy. If you’ve found the person you want to be with for the rest of your life, then be with them every single day.

hotjamale said:
I think you’re thinking way too much about the future, and need to think about the now. Don’t worry about the time stamp, don’t worry about spending your life with this other guy forever, just do what you want to do right at this present moment. If you want to be with the guy with the time stamp, do it, regardless of the inevitable break up. That doesn’t matter – all that matters is now. If you don’t, don’t. Don’t make it about the future, though. The future doesn’t exist, only the present does.

Also, you may THINK you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy, but that means very little to be perfectly honest. If you aren’t presently dating him and living with him, and if you want kids in the future and haven’t had them with him yet, what you think currently could, and very possibly will, change VERY drastically very quickly. It also could not, but it’s for the best to not put expectations like this on relationships, especially when you aren’t even dating the person yet.

This is a really complicated situation. I personally think if you’re dating someone, and you already think the relationship is going to end then you shouldn’t lead that person on. You should never keep dating someone if you’re not into it. It’s not fair to you or the other person.

As far as moving on with someone else, regardless of if you want to spend the rest of your life with them or not, maybe you should give it a try. I think people who are truly committed in a relationship won’t fall for another person so if you do, maybe it was meant to happen.

I can’t speak to much on wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone because that hasn’t happened to me. I think it’s easy to get caught up in someone and fall in love very quickly, but you should always make sure you really know someone before jumping into the deep end.

Have you met the “love of your life” while in another relationship? Have you ever ended a relationship because you fell for someone else? Tell me in the comments!

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