10 Signs You’re A Bad Girlfriend

Remember how last week we gave you 10 signs to show that you might have a bad boyfriend? Well, blaming all relationship issues on the guy isn’t exactly fair… although us girls are lovely, sometimes we can be the cause of a bad relationship, too.

I don’t want you guys to think I’m picking on you or putting you down. Relationships are hard work and we all mess up sometimes. And when we’re the ones doing the wrong thing, it can sometimes be hard to convince ourselves of that. Being a bad girlfriend doesn’t mean you’re a bad person – it just means you may need to change some things, or take some time before you go into a serious relationship. If you’re worried about what kind of girlfriend you are, check out these signs that you just might be doing the wrong thing – and acting like a bad girlfriend.

Do you think you’re a bad girlfriend? Or do you think you have a bad boyfriend? What signs did we miss? Tell me in the comments.


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  • Ri_4real

    My bf and I have been together for 7 months and 5 weeks. In the beginning of the relationship we cool we talked all night and laughing all the time. We had good days every single day tbh. But somewhere in the relationship he started to change. One of his family members pasted away and everything changed that day. So then the next time we was on the phone he started getting mad for now reason and then I would ask him what’s wrong and then he would cuss at me and now he’s always mad and cusses at me. But he says he loves me. One of me wants to be done with him. The other part don’t believe what he says anymore and the other part of me wants to show him how it feels. Idk what to do anymore.

  • Kayla Horan

    i feel like im all of those things except the fliring and expectging him to pay for everything

  • Kayla Horan

    i think that im a bad gf cos i say mean things to him sometimes sometimes i do it on purpose out of spite but other times i dont think before i speak and it makes him sad or annoyed and causes arguements and weve been arguing a lot lately and it sucks

    • LJW7749

      Coming from someone who had an ex that shares 8 or 9 out of 10 things on that list…I think you should acknowledge to him what you’re doing and try to make an effort to be better. You can try to make things right with him or just prepare to be alone. You’re driving him away and nobody…guy or girl wants that kind of treatment.

  • G.

    Hey, I came here seeking advice :/ I’ve been with my girlfriend for 5 months now, and like in the first 2 months, we used to be so different, different in a good way, we used to talk all night till late, and when we did, we used use all sorts of emotions/smileys. And I used to continue with her attitude back then cause I really liked it, I really love this girl and Im happy with her and that I have her. And she loves me too and she say that she is really glad that she found me, she appriciates me, she told me that to my face one day, and I felt happy!
    But nowadays everything is different :/ the problem is, that her way of talking to me has changed nowadays, she talks in a very serious way, texts seem shorts, chats on facebook seem like .. Different in a bad way, like we’re not talking like we used to in the begining of our relationship, and it really really bugs me! Cause it feels like, physically im with the same girl I asked to be my gf 5 months ago, but characteristically, shes not the same gf, she changed..
    And 2 days ago we went out to watch a movie, it was a comedy and when we decided to take the bus back home I took the liberty of asking her if maybe there is something from my character that she would like me to maybe, adjust, since she seems different.. And she replied back in like an aggresive tone and said ‘ who the fuck ask that type of question, I like/love you for who you are, and Im not saying that there is anything wrong with your character, but if there were to be, you have to find and fix it yourself ‘
    I really hope to hear from someone and help me with this, cause I rly dont know what to do! Pls help me :/ p.s leaving her and finding another girl isnt an option.
    Thank you for taking your time reading this.

  • beautifuldangerous

    wow i got all the 10 signs. no wonder my boyfriend of 2 years left me and doesn’t want me anymore.

  • J

    I would say I have snooped a bit before, but not really out of lack of trust just curiousness but I don’t do that anymore cause I get that it isnt fair!

  • Punk Rock Emma

    He’s the one that kinda cried when we didnt talk like for three days because I was on vacation and tbh he’s not that bad.
    But idk I blame myself for the shit that happened.

  • rachael

    My boyfriend is all of those! I get told I am a bad girlfriend by people who don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. I googled definition of a bad girlfriend. But it doesn’t say a bad girlfriend. Cooks all your meals. Cleans. Washes your clothes. Buys you little things. Sends a text to say you think of them. Has friends and allows you to do what ever aslong as its not cheating. Also your girlfriend does all this and she works full time, same shifts as you. Still tries to make herself look nice and make a effort for him. Because I am about to fall apart here. This girl is me. And im so worn out. Tired! Emotional hurt. So I think that makes me a mug not a bad girlfriend as others say.

  • Ashleigh

    Well then I’m not

  • Jane

    my bfs friends don’t like me because he kinda ditched me for them.

    • Kayla Horan

      same here

  • alex

    I only got the #8 am I a bad gf than? 🙁

    • Jay shapiro

      Ask your boyfriend. He may say you have 7

  • Alisa Cambridge

    Thank you for this. My bf constantly kept talkin bout i need to change this way and that way and i just thought his expectations of me where to high! reading this…o dear i realize he is right. i fall into MOST of these! HELP! WHERE CAN I START????

    • Ritesh Madhukar

      Hey d same condition of mine 2 n her name is Alisha

  • Bria Adams

    it helped alot thanks guys

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  • Rebecca A. Marquis

    Great article!