Comments on: What You Had To Say About Losing Your Virginity

By: arisha

arisha — Mon, 10 Jun 2013 13:40:14 +0000

my say on this would i lost my virginity at the age of 15 with my bf of that time. Like how people say itz usually painful when you loose your virginity and i would also agree with that it was indeed every painful for me “down there” when my bf inserted his body into my body but truely speaking i enjoyed every ounce of that pain. It was such a beautiful feeling and that pain in my pussy made me feel like sexy. I would losing your virginity is awesome and every girl should experience it

By: D.

D. — Sun, 02 Jun 2013 17:13:47 +0000

I don’t regret anything about my first time. It was with my first love and every bit of it was romantic. He was so thoughtful and so caring. What hurts the most is that we don’t speak to each other now. And I think about him like crazy..

By: Anna

Anna — Sat, 25 May 2013 06:05:47 +0000

I agree with Artemis. There will always be bad decisions and good decisions. The result of this is experience. Life is full of these experiences. Sex is again one of those experiences. If you say that you dont want to have sex because you might regret your decision, I tend to disagree. Whether one has made a good or bad decision is only obvious after the act is done. You can never know if that decision is going to be right or wrong. What we tend to do is console ourselves that we made the “right” decision NOT to have sex.
On the other hand that sexual act might have been the best experience you will have ever had.
I think if we want to have sex we should not worry about future regrets. I would suggest we just make sure we take precautions against STDs and pregnancy, and if we want to have sex with the guy we have chosen, then to go for it.
I am amazed that sex is seen as something bad. It is actually an awesome feeling

By: Jojo

Jojo — Thu, 09 May 2013 20:44:34 +0000

If he loves you he should wait,your still young and you don’t want to do something and regret it after,don’t just do it out of pressure do it when your married are with someone that respects you well enough to wait

By: Smileyy97

Smileyy97 — Mon, 06 May 2013 20:00:31 +0000

i strongly agree!!!

By: Artemis95

Artemis95 — Mon, 29 Apr 2013 22:43:57 +0000

Honestly, I think everyone has different comfort levels when it come to losing their virginity, and there are so many possible influencing factors. Religion, morality, family, friends, school, biology, psychology, and personal history all play a part. Most of my friends are strictly religious, and that’s their primary reason for waiting. I attend a school in which it’s almost unacceptable to be a virgin, and that influences a lot of people. There are also a lot of people who have more than just the obvious doubts and anxieties that come with something like that. I fall into that group. My parents were always very open and honest with me about sex, but I had some bad experiences with guys early on that severely altered my personal comfort level to the point at which I have a debilitating fear of physical and emotional intimacy, which I know isn’t healthy. There’s no way I could handle it psychologically. I’m easily capable of fantasies, but the idea of actually following through with something like that literally nearly causes me to vomit. Then there are people on the other end of the spectrum who were probably a little too comfortable with it, and rushed into something they may very well come to regret, at an age at which a person isn’t really mature enough to deal with the possible consequences. In the end, it should probably come down to a combination of what on wants, and what is sensible. A person should not only be comfortable with the decision in the moment, but have really thought it through to increase the odds that they’ll be comfortable with the decision later on.

By: Star

Star — Fri, 26 Apr 2013 01:31:40 +0000

Hey i know im young but i know what your going through. I think that you should wait until your ready,because if you dont youll probly regret it. Also if the guy really loves you he will respect your wishes and wait,but if not hes not worth your time. Lastly your 17 years old you have your whole life ahead of you dont try to rush into things.

By: Christy

Christy — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 10:36:18 +0000

I have dumped two of my bf because they wanted sex by all means. I got another bf whom i love so much. He is loving, caring and so decipline, i got him when i am 15 and now i am 17plus, he has started demanding for sex, i am a virgin and i am so scared of loosing him what will i do?

By: gingercookie

gingercookie — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 09:38:29 +0000

i lost my virginity when i was 14 and i wasint ready i regreut it cause i got pragnet on my first time and ever since then im worried it might happen again

By: Casey

Casey — Sat, 13 Apr 2013 08:33:13 +0000

I lost mine and im cool with it and my old bf I lost it with said he wanted to it again even though we broke up I dumped him