What You Had To Say About Losing Your Virginity

Earlier this week, we specifically shared things women wished they knew before having sex, but a lot of the time the comment sections are full of conversation about losing your virginity.

Whether you’re thinking about doing it or have already done it, the comments are full of advice, thoughts and personal stories related to the topic of virginity.

We’ve gone ahead and dug up a sample of some of the things that you all have shared with us and each other related to having sex for the first time. Have a look!

From “I Have Terrible Anxiety About Sex”


From “My First Time Having Perfect Sex”


From “From The Boards: Do Girls Really Get Attached To The Person They Lose Their Virginity To?”


From “Does Your First Time Having Sex Set The Tone For The Rest Of Your Sex Life?”


From “What Is Virginity?”


From “From The Boards: How Young Is Too Young To Lose Your Virginity?”


From “Reader Hookup Confession: I Planned On Waiting Until Marriage But…”


From “Confession: Waiting Until Your Ready”


From “My First Time Having Sex”

Do you have something you want to share about virginity? Tell us in the comments. 


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  • Christy

    Am 20 but still a Virgin because am not ready for sex.So I think we shouldn’t lose our virginity to a guy just to please him rather we should reserve our virginity for our life partner so they can be proud of us

  • I’ll tell u later

    I’m 14 years old and lost my viriginity to a 19 year old and I knew what I was doin I don’t think she no but I’m not ashamed of it ifk why but since thZt time I’ve been fucking every girls pussy making them mother fuckas scream if I was y’all u need to go get some pussy how bout some citgin pussy that’s the best and them black virgins mm I’m white and fuck them all the time every girl done had my dick I’m nd
    Ed as the biggest hoe in Chicago shim about to go duck someone now

  • growinguplovely

    tbch, if I had any advice to give, knowing that it could be sincerely helpful to a girl is to completely wait. with hormones and feelings and especially emotions, I know that a simple makeout session can lead to sex & in the moment, it feels like the right moment as if you’re ready. but I’m telling you right now, you really aren’t ready. I remember losing my virginity. I was 14 almost 15. sadly enough it was after church & my boyfriend and I were home alone. out of boredom, us making out led to us having sex on his parents couch. & I’m telling you right now, in the moment it is very enjoyable. your feelings are indescribable, but the after math of it all leaves you with guilt or a different feeling other than regret. I do not regret having sex with him, although after that we did break up. we still keep in touch.
    besides my story, Id like to take the time and hope little girls out there take the time or our taking the time now to read what I’m about to say.
    NO GUY & I MEAN ABSOLUTELY NO GUY, IS WORTH YOUR VIRGINITY AT THIS AGE. do not let them take something so fragile and important from you, so young. all that matters is your ready ness. so please be ready.

  • Emilia

    My first time was not awkward at all. If it’s with someone you love it should be special. Not gonna lie, I was so scared, and I needed a little push to do it. It hurts at first, but then starts to feel good, and it’s totally worth the little bit of pain. It brings you a lot closer to the person and makes you trust them more. Just tell your SO to go slow, or else it won’t be a pleasant experience. I am also religious, and I don’t regret having sex at all. Good luck!

  • James

    I’m 15 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a month or two ago. I don’t regret it now and never understood the big deal about virginities before but I’m a little nervous that if we ever break up, I will.

  • Not telling!!

    Honestly i’m very shy :( i’m eleven and I think about sex, my mom explained every thing wrong about doing it but i can’t help it! I am raised in a religious family and i am ashamed I try not to think of it and i’m really not a bad kid i’m the geek in school ugh i’m so confused and i’m scared to talk to talk about it with my parents or well anybody I mean I read all your Comments and i think if you guys like it so much so will I, i just don’t know what to do

    • ConfusedTori

      You shouldn’t feel ashamed about it its normal to think about, your going through all these hormones and it can be confusing at times.