10 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Had Sex

Thinking about having sex for the first time can be a little scary. You may have a lot of questions. There may even be things that you haven’t even thought about yet. Don’t worry though – this is something that we all go through.

Though the first-time experience isn’t the same for everybody, we asked women responded what they wish they knew before they had sex. Hopefully this will help you get some answers and remind you that you’re definitely not alone out there. Here are 10 things that women wish they knew before having sex:

What do you wish you had known before having sex? Do you still have questions about sex? Tell us in the comments!

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  • Anonymous me

    Sex is great don’t be scared. You should have sex for the first time with the one you love!!

  • raegan

    Ok so I’m 13 I get horny for no reason and I’ve tried to masterbate but idk and I don’t know how to stop it

    • Bells

      I don’t know if you’re a guy or a girl but getting horny or turned on is totally normal and so is masturbating. You don’t HAVE to masturbate, deciding not to do it is totally okay too, but it can help you release that pent up feeling you have inside when you get excited. It might feel really awkward or embarrassing but don’t worry about it, explore yourself, see what feels good and see what doesn’t. When you get close to climaxing for the first time the feeling might scare you, when you don’t know what to expect it can really shake you and make you not want to do it anymore (that is totally OKAY!) but if you decided you want to see what happens after then keep going and it will probably feel really good but also make you really confused about what happened. Do some research about it or maybe ask your parents or an adult or friend you trust about what you feel or about puberty to learn more. You’re not alone and know that no matter what you do it’s OKAY! There’s nothing wrong with any of it. Good luck!

  • Lori

    Hi I’m 13 and I don’t shave down there but I do have a little renedss and even a few bumps. I’m a virgin, but do I have an infection? It doesn’t hurt at all, but should I call a doctor? I wash down there regularly

    • Bethany Lee

      U should tell ur mom, it could be any thing from a rash due to sensitive skin or a infection.

  • momal shaikh

    i love sex after marriage i really want to do it with my partner…..