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I still haven’t experienced my first kiss and I have recently turned 20.
The first guy to like me, as in really like me, not just a guy who wanted a girlfriend and would chat all kinds of girls up, I met in November when I was still 19. I went on my first date in December, haven’t been on any since but one of my guy friends and I are working on setting up a double date.
I wouldn’t really sweat it, what most of those other people were experiencing wasn’t love. At times I have felt a bit insecure about it, but then I think forward and am much happier that I wasn’t going around kissing a bunch of wrong guys.
I’m 19 as well, I’ll be 20 in July, and I’m right there with you! I’ve never had a boyfriend, and I’m a virgin. I’ve been made out with twice, but I don’t really count those as ‘real’ kisses.
I had the opportunity to get together with a guy, and after thinking about it, I decided I wasn’t ready. I’ve learned that I need to love myself before I love someone else wholeheartedly, and I’m insecure about my body.
My point is, everyone has a different time when they are ready to pursue relationships. If you’re not ready, then that’s fine! Don’t let anyone tell you you’re too old. If you’re young at heart it doesn’t matter what age you are.
You are normal! I don’t want to just repeat everything everyone else has said, but I want to stress that being almost 20 and never kissed is NOT a bad thing. It is a blessing that so many people don’t realize. I know that the culture these days says that if you are in high school and never kissed then there is something wrong with you, but that is such a lie!
I encourage you to focus on your life right now, whatever things you are passionate about, dive into those things. And before you know it, there will be a guy who notices you and loves your passion for life! Trust me, don’t waste time looking for the right guy, he will come along. Be patient and don’t stress.
I totally agree! Some people have their first kiss at a very young age and some don’t. Everybody is different!
Not having your first kiss in high school doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. You just haven’t found anyone that you want to have a first kiss with. If you haven’t felt attraction toward anyone enough to kiss them, that’s totally fine.
Don’t dwell on the fact that you haven’t kissed someone yet! Keep being you and doing the things you love. It will happen when it’s right for you!
Have you had your first kiss? How old were you if you did? Are you waiting to kiss someone? Tell me in the comments!
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