8 Signs Your Boyfriend Wants To Break Up With You

I recently read some research that states that most people in long-term relationships think about breaking up for a really long time before they actually go through with it. Eek. I have to admit, this kind of freaked me out. Who wants to date someone who’s secretly considering ending things? Um, no one, that’s who.

If you’re worried that your boyfriend (or girlfriend) may be feeling this way and is just unwilling to end the relationship, I’ve put together some things you should be looking out for. While I don’t want you girls getting crazy over this list (if one thing applies to your BF, please don’t assume it’s over), it’s important to realize that there are some tell-tale signs to watch for if you’re worried about your relationship ending. Take a look at these 8 signs that your boyfriend may want to break up with you. Then, please, talk to him.

Disclaimer: I don’t know your boyfriend. I don’t know if he wants to break up with you. The only way you’re ever going to know for sure if he wants to break up is if you talk to him about things honestly. Please don’t read this and automatically assume your boyfriend wants to end things.

Do any of these warning signs seem familiar to you? What would you do if you thought your boyfriend was going to break up with you? Tell me in the comments.Β 

 

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  • Swati

    Hello guys…. I m married and not happy in my married life, i met a guy who is 2 years younger to me. We started dating. He was gud at the initial stage, but now he doesn’t care about me. He always says i luv u and want to marry u.. But he doesn’t care about my feelings. Plz suggest what to do. We r dating since last 8 months.

  • Amy smith

    My boy friend and I we don’t have any fight just a little miscommunication. But he was really sick. He called me say he is gling to hospital and he waa admit to ICU for couple days. He text me back and call me, he say he was miss and love me. After i talk to him next day I never heard again almost a week. So i dont know if he was in bad condition or ignoring. I always text him almost everyday even one I never heard anything from him. But we don’t have any formal break up or he never say anything to break me up. What should i do?

  • jnvi

    me and my boyfriend are in a relationship since 3 years ..first two years of our relationship were awesome as like if we cant live without each other..but now things are beyond limit..he dont replies me on time .he is not interested to talk with me on cell phone but is always ready to meet me personally . .. he keeps on saying that i m her first priority after parents ..but now i think his friends are more important for him ..last night he scolded me just because i said something wrong for his friend. he finds playing pokemon go more interesting than talking to me . i already talked about him about this change .I confessed that i dont like it .I set him free if wanted to leave me , he can. we had regular arguements about this. but he dont wants to leave me . He wants to keep me but he is not a ‘keeper’. he dont know how to keep her grlfrnd happy. after every arguement ,he talks very lovingly for few days .but after, the same things starts! i m stuck .should i move on?coz cant tolerate .

  • jnvi

    me and my boyfriend are in a relationship since 3 years ..first two years of our relationship were awesome as like if we cant live without each other..but now things are beyond limit..he dont replies me on time .he is not interested to talk with me on cell phone but is always ready to meet me personally . .. he keeps on saying that i m her first priority after parents ..but now i think his friends are more important for him ..last night he scolded me just because i said something wrong for his friend. he finds playing pokemon go more interesting than talking to me . i already talked about him about this change .I confessed that i dont like it .I set him free if wanted to leave me , he can. we had regular arguements about this. but he dont wants to leave me . He wants to keep me but he is not a ‘keeper’. he dont know how to keep her grlfrnd happy. after every arguement ,he talks very lovingly for few days .but after, the same things starts! i m stuck .should i move on?coz cant tolerate .

  • Stephanie Butcher

    Been with boyfriend 7 years got into a argument which we barely argue maybe once every 3 months but when we so argue it gets bad but he usually don’t say to much to me for a week but now it’s been 3 weeks I mean we talk but we don’t joke around more silent than talking but he still wants to take me with him to the store or fishing but bed time he don’t cuddle with me like before sometimes he will say he loves me and there is times he don’t tell me what am I missing or is he just done with the relationship

    • realizing

      Has anything changed in the relationship like… questions of marriage, children, moving, loss of a job? It is interesting to know after 7 years of being in a relationship that he is distant. Are you able to talk to him about what’s on his mind or is that completely not an option now or at least you do not feel comfortable with bringing up?

  • Sherborn

    Hi
    Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years and when I first met him he was so sweet and funny and loving. but now its terrible
    Every time I talk to him about things he just sits there an watches cartoons and he just stopped listening to me and doing things with me.
    and when
    I go to touch him he keeps saying to me ” Stop I’m hot or Stop it or if not he walks out side pissed off.
    but when hes with his boys wow hes laughing, happy, talking up big and playing with them and all that.
    an
    at night I cant cuddle him or kiss him he just gets angry an he yells at me an leaves me crying
    when we argue he puts everything on me an I feel so upset when I always get the blame
    An a couple of months ago I bought him a v8 Ls 1 and My Self A Toyota Land Cruiser and I thought that would bring us to together and make things better but no
    he expects me to drive in my car alone and he drives his ute around and it feels like he doesn’t want to be seen with me I Asked Him if we could go down in the ute to see my parents and turns around a says ‘ok Babe but I think we need two cars so u drive your car down an ill drive mine” like hello what kind of boyfriend lets there girl drive alone
    so yeah it feels like he doesn’t want me around him
    I need some advice it feels like my relationship is falling apart….
    I have to put up with this everyday an I’m Trying My Best for us but Nothing Is Working

    • realizing

      I have been dating the same man for just over 3 years. It is a rocky relationship for sure plus now I’m expecting. I could probably reply to many of the topics of this site with my version of what I’ve been going through.
      Anyway, if he was already acting obnoxious for no real reason to you, why would you buy him such a big item such as a vehicle? Was he talking to you when you brought up the idea? Wanted to be touched then until the deal went through??

      Something is definitely up with your guy.
      Having a real talk about what is going on is definitely needed.
      I hope within the month of this post that you two were able to figure out what’s lacking/missing in the relationship.

      Good luck!

  • sad girl

    i always ask my boyfriend to give me his dick but he never does… what should i do…

  • Emma

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 2years, we practically live together which I enjoy but lately he just seems to be fed up with my company. He’s always on his phone, I feel as though we have nothing to talk about and when I try to make conversations he gets annoyed with me as “he’s tired” or I’m “quizzing him”. I don’t know what to do, I love him more than anything but I don’t think he wants to be with me anymore.
    Advice please πŸ™‚

    • realizing

      Hi Emma,
      I know this is a year ago but have things between you and your boyfriend at the time of this post changed? Are you two still together? Were you able to work things out?

  • Holly

    He put me second to his friends and alone time. Hardly texted or called me. Would have a day off from work and no plans yet say that he would “see” if he could fit me in his day. Excuses galore.

  • Lisa

    me and my boyfriend have a dateing in the past we break up beacuse he cheat on me with his ex girlfriend that was 10 years ago back in March we got back togther but on my birthday he did get me anything and same for chirstmas I don’t know what to do he does kiss me that much or sex

  • anju

    my boyfriend and i have been dating for last 4 years,i loved him very much but the problem he always borrow money from me,he never gifted anything on my bday though he purchases gifts for his family members,whenever we are going out i am the one who is spending,he spends when i tell him,he always tells his mother does not gives him money.Once he abused me when i refused to give him money,he cannot manage his basic needs and also his money.now when i told him i want to breakup he is telling give me few more months i will change,its not that before i have not told him how i feel i want some changes.now i am confused is it a right decision to break up with him..

    • Zandra Thomas

      Cut him loose. A dependent man is nothing but a leech trying to keep up appearances. He either had a hidden drug problem or is using the hell out of you. Run don’t walk!

  • Seth Ndayisenga

    You just need to learn how to let go and willing to start a new living without them.

  • Bernice

    If sh x nt a badperson wht wrong abut dt.I wnt 2 no whether de i normal or nt

  • shweta

    itz obiouss that …he …doesn’t luvz anymoreee…….
    juzz forget him..
    .
    n get a neww startt.!

  • anee

    ma bf dsnt tlk vith me mch more every sngl day he xay 2 me dat he buxy I thnk he x lyng wht shld I do nw n I love him so mch πŸ™

    • Holly

      Let himknow make an effort. If he doesn’t, then you know how he feels about you

  • Eliza

    Hi! My boyfriend left me 6 months back. We were having 2 years of relationship with each other. I loved him alot & still love him, whatever he asked for I did for him, but now he doesn’t care, forgot everything. I feel so less that he left me. What should I do now? πŸ™

    • Julianna Inanimentum

      Im sorry, i know its hard to lose someone we love. Especially a partner we commit to because after 2 years you think of your future and imagine it that way with them. But honestly you need to feel the pain of the break up and accept it. Some men can use a woman and even if she is the most amazing woman in the world, after a while… they just get tired of us. I know its hard but it gets easier with time. Remember that there are people out there who will appreciate all you do for them. Stay strong πŸ™‚