Comments on: From The Message Boards: Is It Okay To Go After Your Best Friend’s Ex? http://www.gurl.com/2013/01/20/best-friends-ex/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=best-friends-ex A teen site and community for teenage girls Wed, 22 May 2013 05:13:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Kellyhttp://www.gurl.com/2013/01/20/best-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-337681 Kelly Sat, 26 Jan 2013 18:36:57 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=94365#comment-337681 Guys during high school will come and go but best friends are always there for you. You may not be her property, but its gonna suck if you don’t have a best friend or a boyfriend in case it doesn’t work out.

]]> By: DejahRene298http://www.gurl.com/2013/01/20/best-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-334241 DejahRene298 Wed, 23 Jan 2013 23:43:19 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=94365#comment-334241 Me and my sister(we are twins) have a “Sister Code Rule” for this type of situation. We are not allowed to date each others exes or anyone who has previously asked out a twin. This works for us because it protects each others feelings. Even though we may have broken up with someone we may still have feelings for them and to see them everyday loving your sister/best friend is heartbreaking(its almost like a form of jealousy). The only exception is when the twin who was asked out or the girlfriend of a previous ex says that its okay and that they no longer have feelings for that person.

]]> By: Laurenhttp://www.gurl.com/2013/01/20/best-friends-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-330991 Lauren Sun, 20 Jan 2013 23:45:27 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=94365#comment-330991 I think your assessment is really unfair. For short-term, high school relationships I can understand what you’re saying. However, things change when you get older and when you know exactly what you’re looking for in a life partner.

I’m dating a friend’s ex. She dated him for 11 months in college. He and I have been dating for several years and are in the process of moving in together. Our relationship is far more serious than what theirs ever was. Perhaps I’m biased, but I don’t think it’s fair to try and prevent a friend from being with someone who truly makes them happy just because you and he have a history.

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