Comments on: Ask A Guy: Is It Ever Possible To Be Friends With An Ex?

By: Original 95

Original 95 — Sun, 06 Jan 2013 06:04:09 +0000

Remaining “friends” is too much emotional stress. In my case the guy only wanted to be friends to hook up -_-

By: Juliana

Juliana — Sat, 05 Jan 2013 22:10:57 +0000

So, I actually need A LOT of help now. I’m crushing with this boy, and I had never talked to him until November. I “asked him out”, kind of, but he said that he wasn’t sure if he could go. Ok, after a couple of days, I looked at him at the schoold and he was staring at me, for at least two minutes, I think. My friend noticed that and went to talk to him, but I kind of screamed “NO!”. He was all shy and red, it was cute. Anyway, I talked to him again, on Facebook, and asked if he wanted to come with me watch a movie, but he didn’t reply :/ After two weeks or so, on his birthday, he told me “I’m sorry, my laptop was a mess and I couldn’t reply. But I watched the movie…” and then we talked about the movie, and more stuff that we’re into. Even sex o_e. Anyway, we talked for 3 hours straight, ’til I didn’t know anything more to talk, and then said goodbye. A couple of days later, I said hi and asked him if he could borrow me a book that he said that he had. He said that it was ok, so I said “Oh, but I’m changing school…” he said NOTHING about that, not even when I told him that we should meet. Oh, and he had told me to watch an anime, that was very romantic and stuff, because I’d like that and he loved. So, my question is: Even he showing all the signals, and asking about me, and talking about his life and stuff, he’s not amused to go out with me, at least I think so. I’m actually in love with him, and I don’t know what to do :/

By: Christina Sarah

Christina Sarah — Sat, 05 Jan 2013 00:05:05 +0000

The fact that both of you are too shy to talk to each other kind of makes things difficult, but the answer will always be ‘no’ if you never ask (and you’ll never really know what he thinks). Don’t be afraid of rejection. The worst that can happen is he says no–5 years from now, will that still matter to you? Best of luck!

By: layla

layla — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 21:48:28 +0000

So basically ive fancied this guy for a while now anf he asked me out were going out for a couple days the he dumped me coz we were both to shy to talk to eachother… He keeps like staring at me in classes but i got one of my friends to ask him out for me but she said “fo.you want to go out with her” rather than she wants to go out with you so he stuttered and said umm n n no then walked off red. This weeks apart from one night i have been having dreames that i ask him out then the next dream he asked me out and sometimes.we are already together it is defonatly his face in all of the dreames. I NEED ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO AAAH i still really fancie him but jm confused about what he thinks! Sorry this is so long but i need help!! Thabks xx

By: Christina Sarah

Christina Sarah — Fri, 04 Jan 2013 02:39:08 +0000

“However, if you’re the one doing the dumping, and you suspect he still has feelings for you, be careful – he might be settling for a friendship out of desperation. Or, he might even have sneakier motives, hoping to eventually re-open the possibility of romance in the near future.”

Thank you for making it clear for me that it might just not be worth it no matter how much I’d like for us to remain friends. It sucks, but maybe it’s just not meant to be.