http://www.gurl.com/2012/12/24/my-best-friends-boyfriend-advice/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-best-friends-boyfriend-advice A teen site and community for teenage girls Fri, 11 Jan 2013 22:57:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5 http://www.gurl.com/2012/12/24/my-best-friends-boyfriend-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-296250 LittleRedWolfGirl Tue, 25 Dec 2012 20:02:07 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=91412#comment-296250 Not worth it. SOOOO not worth it. Been there. Made a really stupid mistake. Learned my lession, BIG time. I had liked a guy for a couple years. He was dating a friend of mine. I never made a move (too shy, plus I didn’t wanna be THAT girl). Then they broke up, and he seemed kinda flirty. Thought I might have a chance. Then he started dating someone else, and I was crushed. I met her, and she seemed nice, but it still hurt. Then he and I started talking more after he left for school, and he told me that he liked me and wanted to kiss me. Well, stupid me, I was so ecstatic about that fact that he ACTUALLY LIKED ME to think about the consequences of all that. I figured it was a one-time thing, and made all these justifications to myself. Then his gf and I ended up becoming best friends, but he still kept wanting me to do things with him. I realized he was just a manipulative jerk who didn’t care about me at all, and just wanted to have his cake and eat it too, basically. So I told him I was done, it wasn’t right, I didn’t feel that way about him anymore, and that was that. I felt so bad, but tried to put it behind me. Then, for whatever reason, he ended up telling her (without giving me the heads up first), and of course she was pissed and hurt, and we aren’t friends anymore, which I totally deserve. Oddly, she’s still with him (and I wasn’t the only girl he fooled around with behind her back), so I have no idea what exactly he told her, but…. you get the idea. Yes, I know I made a messed up choice, I let my emotions rule out over my common sense, and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I’ve definitely learned from it, though. If someone, guy or girl, your’e interested in is already dating someone (even if it’s not someone you know personally), just move on, no matter how much you like them. Being that person just isn’t worth it. Trust me.

]]> http://www.gurl.com/2012/12/24/my-best-friends-boyfriend-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-295230 Katherine Tue, 25 Dec 2012 04:22:37 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=91412#comment-295230 If the guy’s willing to hit on you, he’ll be willing to hit on others when he’s with you. Stealing him would be nothing but a service to your friend, she deserves better.

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