7 Secrets You Need To Keep To Make A Relationship Work

Can I tell you guys a secret? Before I started dating my current boyfriend, I was the biggest dating gossiper ever. I shared every detail and every moment of every single date I went on with all of my friends. Nothing was sacred. At first, it was fun to bond with my friends over that stuff… until I started letting all of their opinions, thoughts and conspiracy theories get to me. Soon, I was making huge decisions based on what my friends said… and obviously, it wasn’t working. So when I met my BF, I decided to do things a little differently. For once in my life, I started keeping some very important secrets to myself.

Now, I don’t usually condone keeping secrets (do I have to say it? Secrets, secrets are no fun; unless you share with everyone) because it makes people feel left out and sometimes I feel like it causes tension between people. But in the case of making a relationship work, I have to say that there are some things that you should just keep to yourself… unless you guys break up, of course. Then you can have all the little gossiping sessions you want.

But seriously, there are some relationship secrets you can’t spill if you want to make your relationship work. Trust me, I know how hard it can be to try to resist filling in your BFF on all of the juicy details, but I promise you these tips will make your bond with your boyfriend even better. Take it from someone who experimented with this herself: there are just some things best left between you and your significant other. Check out these seven secrets you need to keep in order to make your relationship work:

Do you agree with this list? What do you tell your friends about your boyfriend? What secrets did I miss? Do you think friends should know everything about a relationship? Tell me in the comments!


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  • dgurl12

    Omg I totally will go with it

  • Rochelle

    Good tips. I agree completely.

  • Sara

    Yeah…I’m guilty of all of these. Except for the inside jokes one of course…we don’t have any inside jokes.

  • Rajan

    How precious your idea