How To Get His Attention . . . Really

We’ve talked a lot recently about the things we do when we have a crush and want to get his attention. We’ve even given you guys funny advice on the things you absolutely shouldn’t do while trying to get his attention.

As for real, straight-up advice on what works when you want him to notice you? Well, we haven’t really answered that, because there really isn’t much you should do. It’s just about being you and not trying so hard. Don’t believe me? Try listening to the wonderful and wise Amy Poehler in her latest video from Ask Amy. She’s been there, done that, and knows the ways of the world.

Do you think you can stop trying to get his attention and just focus more on you? I hope so. Tell me what you think in the comments.

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  1. avatar Jordan says:

    So there’s this guy I like, and him and his girlfriend just recently broke up. I want to talk to him about it, and invite him places, you know, as “friends” but I don’t want to be too pushy and obvious! help!

  2. avatar maya says:

    I dress up in spandex and run through shopping malls yelling ‘I’m single ready to mingle babes!’.
    Works like a charm.

    • avatar Lolly says:

      We ought to work together. You bring the spandex, I’ll bring the bees. Soon, we’ll have a whole dating community set up.

  3. avatar Lara says:

    I Like this guy and i don’t know i he likes me back what do i do?

  4. avatar Lara says:

    I Like this guy and i don’t know i he likes me back what do i do

  5. avatar sarah022 says:

    that was hopfull thanks amy

  6. avatar Ann says:

    How do you get a job at 14?

  7. avatar Destyni says:

    There’s no way I could just let go like that. Not itch what I’ve been through and despite my age I’ve been through a lot.

  8. avatar Nicki says:

    This is so true! I had the same problem but once I stopped worrying about getting guys to like me and started focusing on myself, I scored a dude! Woo!

  9. avatar Lolly says:

    Look, it’s perfectly simple. You cover yourself in bees and run around screaming. Never fails to get guys’ attention (but beware of prowling apiarists).

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