How To Get His Attention . . . Really

We’ve talked a lot recently about the things we do when we have a crush and want to get his attention. We’ve even given you guys funny advice on the things you absolutely shouldn’t do while trying to get his attention.

As for real, straight-up advice on what works when you want him to notice you? Well, we haven’t really answered that, because there really isn’t much you should do. It’s just about being you and not trying so hard. Don’t believe me? Try listening to the wonderful and wise Amy Poehler in her latest video from Ask Amy. She’s been there, done that, and knows the ways of the world.

Do you think you can stop trying to get his attention and just focus more on you? I hope so. Tell me what you think in the comments.

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  • Jordan

    So there’s this guy I like, and him and his girlfriend just recently broke up. I want to talk to him about it, and invite him places, you know, as “friends” but I don’t want to be too pushy and obvious! help!

  • maya

    I dress up in spandex and run through shopping malls yelling ‘I’m single ready to mingle babes!’.
    Works like a charm.

    • Lolly

      We ought to work together. You bring the spandex, I’ll bring the bees. Soon, we’ll have a whole dating community set up.

  • Lara

    I Like this guy and i don’t know i he likes me back what do i do?

  • Lara

    I Like this guy and i don’t know i he likes me back what do i do

  • sarah022

    that was hopfull thanks amy

  • Ann

    How do you get a job at 14?

  • Destyni

    There’s no way I could just let go like that. Not itch what I’ve been through and despite my age I’ve been through a lot.

  • Nicki

    This is so true! I had the same problem but once I stopped worrying about getting guys to like me and started focusing on myself, I scored a dude! Woo!

  • Lolly

    Look, it’s perfectly simple. You cover yourself in bees and run around screaming. Never fails to get guys’ attention (but beware of prowling apiarists).

    • Destyni

      That’s also I good way to end up as the laughing stalk of the school for the next six weekss

      • Lolly

        As long as I don’t end up the laughing stock.

    • mandesa

      lol so true