Comments on: Ask A Guy: What Do Guys Think About Virgins?

By: Jessy

Jessy — Tue, 08 Jan 2013 07:49:07 +0000

For the longest time I worried about this too. However, now that I’m 20 and surrounded by people who truly know who I am and are willingly supporting me emotionally, I’ve found it so much easier to accept myself. I think that there’s something bigger in store for me, and every other girl in a similar situation. All you have to do is let go and realize that perhaps the “inexperience” and “virtue” outlook in this department isn’t that big of a deal after all. If you still wanna look at those two things in the rare perspective, you can call yourself a unicorn. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t think unicorns are awesome, right?

By: amy

amy — Fri, 28 Dec 2012 23:14:27 +0000

i totally agree with this. Our culture makes it seem like lack of sexual ANYTHING is a negative thing. When in reality its whatever you make it. Me personally, its a good thing NOT TO SETTLE. i held on to my “verchew” (or whatever) until i met mr.wrong. I was freshly 17 and he was pushing for it. He was a jerk. And he did not deserve it. If they push for it too much its something “they wanna steal” if its a turn off then they r jus as bad as the stealers. I waited 2 years before getting with someone again and trust me, waiting for the right person is worth it.instead of wanting to “see what the fuss was about.” my current love and i have been 2gether 3 years strong. lifes what u make it.

By: Ethan Fixell

Ethan Fixell — Tue, 18 Dec 2012 19:55:10 +0000

Exactly, Rebecca. Usually it only weeds out the losers!

-Ethan

By: Rebecca

Rebecca — Sun, 16 Dec 2012 15:03:42 +0000

I think it usually only turns off guys who are just looking to take advantage of you. Most guys respect girls who are virgins and sometimes it comes across as lack of interest, but really they just know you’re not the type to mess around.