Well, she is now my ex bff. Not just for this reason, but also because of some of her personality traits. I’m pretty sure she is still hooking up with the guy who treats her like crap.
My bestfriend Damaris is like this.She’s a freshman,and her bf Craig is a senior.All the adults told her he only wants one thing from her.But she said he’s different and their wrong.Well,it turned out that after a week of them being together,he lied to her about sleeping with his ex.He didn’t even feel bad about it either.She was so devestated,and me and our other bff Jasmine were there to pick up the pieces.She said they were over.But two days later,they were dating again.But this time,he lied about her to his friends and other people.He said that he slept with her,when he didn’t.She was so broken when she found out.She was in the bathroom on the floor crying,the security had to come get me and Jasmine to get her out.So we went to a counselor and talked about it.After school when us three were together Craig came,and she broke up with him then.She deleted her number from his phone,and told him that she’s through with him,and he’s NEVER getting her back.It took her a week to get over this.But now,she said she forgives him,and Jasmine and I should too.It’s so frustrating!!!
Similar think happenned to a relative. Her BFF had boyfriend issues she was bold or rather, caring enough to tell her BFF to stay about from the boy based on his bad reputation, only for the girl to tell her boyfriend all that my relative had said to her! The guy almost got violent…it took serious intervention to restrain him.
I’ve been in this situation where my friends keep getting back with her boyfriend and it happen over and over again for the past 5 years.. The boyfriend jealousy level were just over the top and he keep making my friend life miserable.. But still, they keep getting back together again.. I just wish there is no physical injury happen in future..
Oh, so been there. In this case, it wasn’t that they kept breaking up and getting back together, but that he’d be a total jerk, and she’d be depressed, but always forgive him, and it went in circles. Then they finally broke up, and it was rough for a while, but about a year later they started talking again, because, as she put it, “she wanted to get good closer and not leave things that way”, and just see if they could be friends. Well, after some time, she told me she still loved him, and they got back together. I was really opposed to it at first, but he seemed to actually be showing good signs that he’d changed. Well, then this whole big drama went down, and I realized he was even more of a sleeze than I’d thought. She and I aren’t friends anymore, but the two of them are still together.
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Well, she is now my ex bff. Not just for this reason, but also because of some of her personality traits. I’m pretty sure she is still hooking up with the guy who treats her like crap.
My bestfriend Damaris is like this.She’s a freshman,and her bf Craig is a senior.All the adults told her he only wants one thing from her.But she said he’s different and their wrong.Well,it turned out that after a week of them being together,he lied to her about sleeping with his ex.He didn’t even feel bad about it either.She was so devestated,and me and our other bff Jasmine were there to pick up the pieces.She said they were over.But two days later,they were dating again.But this time,he lied about her to his friends and other people.He said that he slept with her,when he didn’t.She was so broken when she found out.She was in the bathroom on the floor crying,the security had to come get me and Jasmine to get her out.So we went to a counselor and talked about it.After school when us three were together Craig came,and she broke up with him then.She deleted her number from his phone,and told him that she’s through with him,and he’s NEVER getting her back.It took her a week to get over this.But now,she said she forgives him,and Jasmine and I should too.It’s so frustrating!!!
Similar think happenned to a relative. Her BFF had boyfriend issues she was bold or rather, caring enough to tell her BFF to stay about from the boy based on his bad reputation, only for the girl to tell her boyfriend all that my relative had said to her! The guy almost got violent…it took serious intervention to restrain him.
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I’ve been in this situation where my friends keep getting back with her boyfriend and it happen over and over again for the past 5 years..
The boyfriend jealousy level were just over the top and he keep making my friend life miserable..
But still, they keep getting back together again.. I just wish there is no physical injury happen in future..
Oh, so been there. In this case, it wasn’t that they kept breaking up and getting back together, but that he’d be a total jerk, and she’d be depressed, but always forgive him, and it went in circles. Then they finally broke up, and it was rough for a while, but about a year later they started talking again, because, as she put it, “she wanted to get good closer and not leave things that way”, and just see if they could be friends. Well, after some time, she told me she still loved him, and they got back together. I was really opposed to it at first, but he seemed to actually be showing good signs that he’d changed. Well, then this whole big drama went down, and I realized he was even more of a sleeze than I’d thought. She and I aren’t friends anymore, but the two of them are still together.
a great lesson