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> <channel><title>Comments on: Ask A Guy: Do Guys Care If A Girl Texts Them First?</title> <atom:link href="http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=should-i-text-first</link> <description>A teen site and community for teenage girls</description> <lastBuildDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2013 15:36:44 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5</generator> <item><title>By: Taylor</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/comment-page-1/#comment-314547</link> <dc:creator>Taylor</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2013 01:26:09 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=88141#comment-314547</guid> <description><![CDATA[I think you just need to tell him. It will hurt him more if you just keep letting him think that he could possibly be your boyfriend. And when you tell him it doesn&#039;t have to be in a mean way it could be nicely like &quot; hey! My friends keep telling me you like me, but I don&#039;t really want a relationship. I&#039;m really flattered though.&quot; But I would do it in person, not at school or through friends, but go to the park or a fun place. And show him your better friends then a couple. Good luck!]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you just need to tell him. It will hurt him more if you just keep letting him think that he could possibly be your boyfriend. And when you tell him it doesn&#8217;t have to be in a mean way it could be nicely like &#8221; hey! My friends keep telling me you like me, but I don&#8217;t really want a relationship. I&#8217;m really flattered though.&#8221; But I would do it in person, not at school or through friends, but go to the park or a fun place. And show him your better friends then a couple. Good luck!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Hailey</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/comment-page-1/#comment-314542</link> <dc:creator>Hailey</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2013 01:18:20 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=88141#comment-314542</guid> <description><![CDATA[So I had got a new phone and put a status on Facebook with my num. saying
To text me. So this cute boy did, we talked and talked. And then yesterday
he just took longer and longer to text back. But then I this kid started messaging me and I had no idea who he was or how he knew me so (the boy I had talked to) messaged him and said &quot;are you messing with my girl&quot;. We talked for a while after that and then I went to bed. He hasn&#039;t text me all day. Should I text him first or wait?]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So I had got a new phone and put a status on Facebook with my num. saying<br
/> To text me. So this cute boy did, we talked and talked. And then yesterday<br
/> he just took longer and longer to text back. But then I this kid started messaging me and I had no idea who he was or how he knew me so (the boy I had talked to) messaged him and said &#8220;are you messing with my girl&#8221;. We talked for a while after that and then I went to bed. He hasn&#8217;t text me all day. Should I text him first or wait?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Steph</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/comment-page-1/#comment-310563</link> <dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2013 07:31:28 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=88141#comment-310563</guid> <description><![CDATA[I sorta have the same problem though it&#039;s the other way around. And i feel bad for this best friend of mine his name is Frank he a really smart boy who&#039;s half irish (red hair,freckles,really skinny,wears glasses.) And i have become a really good friend of his because most girls will think he&#039;s really weird nerdy/geeky wimpy. And he has told me he has never had a best friend- girl. So then he somehow got my phone number from one of y friends at first i kinda freak out a little but then i was like ok because we use to talk on fb chat but i dissactivated  my fb later. So its explains much but then it resulted he likes me a lot but hes shy to ask me out but he has told one of my friends before he has a crush one me and he won&#039;t stop txt me i want him just as a friend not in that way. But hes really sensitive. neither do i wanna be those persons who won&#039;t txt back like till few days later. (punish him) i will usually say i gtg somewhere or ill txt u later im busy. What should i do?]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I sorta have the same problem though it&#8217;s the other way around. And i feel bad for this best friend of mine his name is Frank he a really smart boy who&#8217;s half irish (red hair,freckles,really skinny,wears glasses.) And i have become a really good friend of his because most girls will think he&#8217;s really weird nerdy/geeky wimpy. And he has told me he has never had a best friend- girl. So then he somehow got my phone number from one of y friends at first i kinda freak out a little but then i was like ok because we use to talk on fb chat but i dissactivated  my fb later. So its explains much but then it resulted he likes me a lot but hes shy to ask me out but he has told one of my friends before he has a crush one me and he won&#8217;t stop txt me i want him just as a friend not in that way. But hes really sensitive. neither do i wanna be those persons who won&#8217;t txt back like till few days later. (punish him) i will usually say i gtg somewhere or ill txt u later im busy. What should i do?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ethan Fixell</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/comment-page-1/#comment-285052</link> <dc:creator>Ethan Fixell</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2012 19:56:08 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=88141#comment-285052</guid> <description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t know if you necessarily found you &quot;not sexy,&quot; but it does sound like it&#039;s time to move on, Dorothy.  He&#039;s clearly distracted, or not invested enough to give him any more of a chance... Try to forget about him!
-Ethan]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if you necessarily found you &#8220;not sexy,&#8221; but it does sound like it&#8217;s time to move on, Dorothy.  He&#8217;s clearly distracted, or not invested enough to give him any more of a chance&#8230; Try to forget about him!</p><p>-Ethan</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ethan Fixell</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/comment-page-1/#comment-285047</link> <dc:creator>Ethan Fixell</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2012 19:54:33 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=88141#comment-285047</guid> <description><![CDATA[SCORE.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SCORE.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: nany</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/comment-page-1/#comment-273422</link> <dc:creator>nany</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2012 10:31:01 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=88141#comment-273422</guid> <description><![CDATA[he found you not sexy]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>he found you not sexy</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: dorothy</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/comment-page-1/#comment-272037</link> <dc:creator>dorothy</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2012 13:22:14 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=88141#comment-272037</guid> <description><![CDATA[i met a guy about month ago, we went out on couple of dates and he has been inviting me over to his place.the last time i went to his place we had sexual intercourse wc was about 2 weeks ago, since then he hasn&#039;t called to invite me to his place, but he calls me to find out how am doing but seems to be always very busy and i really want to spend some time with him.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i met a guy about month ago, we went out on couple of dates and he has been inviting me over to his place.the last time i went to his place we had sexual intercourse wc was about 2 weeks ago, since then he hasn&#8217;t called to invite me to his place, but he calls me to find out how am doing but seems to be always very busy and i really want to spend some time with him.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Bizzy</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/29/should-i-text-first/comment-page-1/#comment-260360</link> <dc:creator>Bizzy</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 02:38:54 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=88141#comment-260360</guid> <description><![CDATA[I got a guys number texted him and now we are dating.. so i guess it works..]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got a guys number texted him and now we are dating.. so i guess it works..</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss