Comments on: If I Lose Weight, Will That Get Guys To Like Me?

By: Should I Lose Weight to Save My Relationship?

Should I Lose Weight to Save My Relationship? — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 07:11:49 +0000

[...] If I Lose Weight, Will That Get Guys To Like Me? [...]

By: kan

kan — Tue, 16 Apr 2013 09:45:11 +0000

honestly guy might like you but first you should love urself more. lose weight for urself love ur health first

By: Barbara

Barbara — Tue, 15 Jan 2013 08:08:42 +0000

you should lose weight for yourself and then that will help you alot in the love life part because these days guys only go for physical appearance so go lose some weight .

By: Kay

Kay — Sat, 22 Dec 2012 06:12:19 +0000

i had a very similar problem. only i was 16 280lbs 5’3 and had not had a bf EVER! i lost 100lbs just to get the guy i wanted and by the time i lost 100lbs in a year,i didnt want him. i didnt feel bad about the fact that i had worked my ass off (no i REALLY worked my ass off) for a guy. i had learned so much in that little time,i learned that if a guy can accept me at 280,he sure as hell cant come crawling to me at 180. lol i also learned what i liked. and my taste in guys changed. so in the end. i lost weight,grew up and learned a little bit about myself

By: Deya

Deya — Sat, 01 Dec 2012 15:01:49 +0000

In my opinion beside health issues no girl wants to lose weight. Everybody likes good food and it is very HARD to lose weight. Count calories and exercise, it seems easy, but it’s not. If you want to get motivated to lose those pounds then do it so you can be more beautiful, so you can rub it in those people’s faces that are judging you or don’t like you, so boys will like you, and the list goes on and on! No boy likes chubby girls! Trust me! I’m 190 and 5′ 5” and no guy accepts me beside my boy best friends. I am not rude because I know what’s like to feel you don’t belong in this world of beauty. You are beautiful, your body just needs some work. Be patient and think about how happy you will be if you lose weight and how beautiful you’ll be, bet you’re be more beautiful than those mean girls. Guys lie when they say they like plus size girls. We lie when we say we like plus size guys, isn’t it?

By: Maria

Maria — Mon, 19 Nov 2012 22:51:34 +0000

If you weight that much you should lose some for your health. I’m 13 5″3′ and weigh 95 lbs. You need to do it to be healthy

By: Vivian

Vivian — Sun, 18 Nov 2012 03:04:01 +0000

At 13, guys are immature and don’t realize that they wouldn’t exist unless every one of their moms was a model, at least in their general thinking. i know many sweet and mature guys but the immature outweigh them by the millions. They don’t know looks aren’t what gets you in a steady relationship. I know because I’m just flat out not pretty in the blonde, skinny, ‘perfect’ way. I’m beautiful and perfect for me and I know guys at my school are superficial. I’m 13 too and was bold enough to tell the guy I liked that I liked him but he slammed the locker in my face. I really don’t mind because at least now I know he’s a jerk. Same thing. If a guy can’t appreciate you for you, he isn’t worth your time. If you already have the gut and perseverance to lose weight for health, YOU GO GIRL!

By: Miss Sunshine

Miss Sunshine — Sat, 17 Nov 2012 13:44:42 +0000

Every girl in the world is different. And every girl wants different things in looks in a guy, some women like larger men other prefer skinny, blue or green eyes, black or blonde hair, the same goes for guys! But everyone just wants someone to love and make them feel happy, you do not get happiness from how much your partner weighs you get it from there personality! Your 13 just focus on happiness and being the nicest person you can be and the boys will come flocking!

By: Ann

Ann — Wed, 14 Nov 2012 22:06:24 +0000

I don’t think some of you guys are getting it. I’m pretty sure she already understands that she has to lose weight, and she’s already trying. I think she’s losing weight because of her health, but she’s also asking if guys would suddenly like her more if/when she loses the weight. I really don’t think that the ONLY reason Alyssa is trying to lose weight is for guys.

By: Ray T

Ray T — Wed, 14 Nov 2012 18:48:17 +0000

Well i think that you should ut in your mind that you want to lose weight fo ryour own health and not for a guy to like you . thats the first dtep
second step you have to be determined about it dont just talk but you also have to do what you say.
p.s : if a guy likes you for your body then he is definitelynot the one for you babe. trust me i’ve been there before. if he likes you he should overcome your weight problems ..
I hope i helped xxx
R