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> <channel><title>Comments on: Ask A Guy: What Do Dudes Think About Girls Who Make The First Move?</title> <atom:link href="http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=make-the-first-move</link> <description>A teen site and community for teenage girls</description> <lastBuildDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2013 15:36:44 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5</generator> <item><title>By: Ethan Fixell</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-285071</link> <dc:creator>Ethan Fixell</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2012 20:03:55 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-285071</guid> <description><![CDATA[I second Skcishdbciushd&#039;s comment -- go for it!
-Ethan]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I second Skcishdbciushd&#8217;s comment &#8212; go for it!</p><p>-Ethan</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ethan Fixell</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-285068</link> <dc:creator>Ethan Fixell</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2012 20:03:05 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-285068</guid> <description><![CDATA[I&#039;m EVERYWHERE!
-Ethan]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m EVERYWHERE!</p><p>-Ethan</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Skcishdbciushd</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-264717</link> <dc:creator>Skcishdbciushd</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 22:06:49 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-264717</guid> <description><![CDATA[Honestly, I think you should go for it! If hes been sending out some strong signals hes obviously into you! I feel like maybe since you&#039;ve been talking in pe he might feel something. You should never be afraid to text or call your boyfriend, once he knows that you&#039;re wanting to talk to him, he&#039;ll warm up to the idea of talking to you first.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Honestly, I think you should go for it! If hes been sending out some strong signals hes obviously into you! I feel like maybe since you&#8217;ve been talking in pe he might feel something. You should never be afraid to text or call your boyfriend, once he knows that you&#8217;re wanting to talk to him, he&#8217;ll warm up to the idea of talking to you first.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Jinnaha</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-257417</link> <dc:creator>Jinnaha</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 21:42:32 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-257417</guid> <description><![CDATA[hey guys need some advice!! This super cute guys asked me out  few months ago and of course(because I fancied him like for ever before ) I said yesbut we didn&#039;t speak to eachother coz we were both really shy so three days later he dumped me &lt;/3 now again he keeps looking at me and in pe I&#039;ve been paired up with him loads and he&#039;s been physically flirting with me but still we havnt spoken it&#039;s just been like smiling at eater from across the room and like nudging...I&#039;ve got a gt feeling he still like me I still like him but I want to know HOW to ask him out?! Again...and I&#039;m scared e will think I&#039;m weird wanting to go out again since we broke up already...HELP!]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey guys need some advice!! This super cute guys asked me out  few months ago and of course(because I fancied him like for ever before ) I said yesbut we didn&#8217;t speak to eachother coz we were both really shy so three days later he dumped me &lt;/3 now again he keeps looking at me and in pe I&#039;ve been paired up with him loads and he&#039;s been physically flirting with me but still we havnt spoken it&#039;s just been like smiling at eater from across the room and like nudging&#8230;I&#039;ve got a gt feeling he still like me I still like him but I want to know HOW to ask him out?! Again&#8230;and I&#039;m scared e will think I&#039;m weird wanting to go out again since we broke up already&#8230;HELP!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: fishy</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-241176</link> <dc:creator>fishy</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2012 21:45:22 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-241176</guid> <description><![CDATA[i really like this  one guy nd we dated before but broke up. now he might ask me out nd i have no idea wht to say someone help me]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i really like this  one guy nd we dated before but broke up. now he might ask me out nd i have no idea wht to say someone help me</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Guest</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-235423</link> <dc:creator>Guest</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2012 18:23:13 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-235423</guid> <description><![CDATA[Haha yeah I tried that... it worked but the guy thought I should start everything (because I started it) and I got sick of waiting for him to do small things (calling, texting...) so I ended it.  But with the right guy I&#039;m sure it would be great.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha yeah I tried that&#8230; it worked but the guy thought I should start everything (because I started it) and I got sick of waiting for him to do small things (calling, texting&#8230;) so I ended it.  But with the right guy I&#8217;m sure it would be great.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: contrygirl1928</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-225547</link> <dc:creator>contrygirl1928</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 12 Nov 2012 12:49:01 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-225547</guid> <description><![CDATA[You knowwhatswierd my rushes name is Ethan  lol just not him]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You knowwhatswierd my rushes name is Ethan  lol just not him</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: basschick</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-224024</link> <dc:creator>basschick</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2012 15:20:38 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-224024</guid> <description><![CDATA[wow thanks a bunch! i am so giving this guy my number asap]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow thanks a bunch! i am so giving this guy my number asap</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Cait</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-221269</link> <dc:creator>Cait</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 09 Nov 2012 23:18:06 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-221269</guid> <description><![CDATA[Relating back to that anxiety question you apparently always get, I might as well ask: How can a girl get over that anxiety and ask a guy out?  I have been seriously bullied in the past, a lot of it relating to the idea that I am hideous, disgusting, no one would ever want to be in a relationship with me, ect... A lot of it came from guys, too. Now I have a lot of trouble getting past that, especially since it still happens. It&#039;s not like I can&#039;t be friends with guys. I even go ballroom dancing, and I&#039;m usually the one who asks the guy to dance. I asked a guy to prom (just as friends). It&#039;s just the idea of being vulnerable to being hurt by someone I actually like that terrifies me. I sort of assume that, while a guy doesn&#039;t mind dancing with me, or being my friend, that they would be completely appalled by the idea of a romantic relationship, and that most of the things people have said about me are true.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Relating back to that anxiety question you apparently always get, I might as well ask: How can a girl get over that anxiety and ask a guy out?  I have been seriously bullied in the past, a lot of it relating to the idea that I am hideous, disgusting, no one would ever want to be in a relationship with me, ect&#8230; A lot of it came from guys, too. Now I have a lot of trouble getting past that, especially since it still happens. It&#8217;s not like I can&#8217;t be friends with guys. I even go ballroom dancing, and I&#8217;m usually the one who asks the guy to dance. I asked a guy to prom (just as friends). It&#8217;s just the idea of being vulnerable to being hurt by someone I actually like that terrifies me. I sort of assume that, while a guy doesn&#8217;t mind dancing with me, or being my friend, that they would be completely appalled by the idea of a romantic relationship, and that most of the things people have said about me are true.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: DanceChick414</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/08/make-the-first-move/comment-page-1/#comment-219715</link> <dc:creator>DanceChick414</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 09 Nov 2012 02:33:43 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=85654#comment-219715</guid> <description><![CDATA[Kso about two weeks ago I asked out this guy and he said yes. But now, after I suggested going to a movie, he hasn&#039;t done anything.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kso about two weeks ago I asked out this guy and he said yes. But now, after I suggested going to a movie, he hasn&#8217;t done anything.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss