5 Signs Your Friend is a Total Bitch

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Is your friend gossiping about you? Not cool. | Source: Shutterstock

We have our friends, and then we have those people who act like friends, but don’t deserve that title. How do you know if your pal is a friend or a frenemy? If she’s acting like a total bitch and pulling some of the things below, you might want to reevaluate your friendship.

1. Your friend always has to one-up you.
You spent days studying for that test and you’re stoked about that 96 percent? She didn’t think it was that hard, only briefly looked at her notes the night before, and got a 97 percent. You had stomach flu for two days and it was awful? She had it for a week and almost died. You think your parents’ punishments are bad? You should try HER parents’. And on and on.

2. She only calls when she needs something.
She needs to copy your notes from French class, to borrow that supercute dress, or even though she never calls you back, suddenly you have to talk to her all night on the phone after she gets dumped. If you want to borrow something, need a shoulder to lean on, or anything else, she’s suddenly MIA.

3. All her compliments are backhanded.
You know, they’re nice until you think twice, stuff like, “That dress makes you look less fat than the last one did,” when you’re out shopping, or at school, “You got a really good grade…for you!” Anything she says still points out what she thinks are your faults. Compliments should make you feel good, not self-conscious. You don’t need to put up with her bitch mouth.

4. She talks about you behind your back.
We all have our good and bad aspects, but she focuses on the bad and makes sure to bring them up with others. Worse, maybe she’s even starting rumors based on innocent things you might have said (ex. you saying “I got in an argument with Valerie last night” becomes “Amy totally hates Valerie!” when your friend tells someone else – who didn’t need to know your business in the first place). She tells your secrets, makes fun of what you’re struggling with, and if you’re having a serious problem, says you’re overreacting.

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She did NOT just put you on blast on Facebook. | Source: Shutterstock

5. She insults your family or your beliefs.
Ok, we all say not-so-nice things about our families sometimes, but when someone else does, that’s different. When your friend says she would never ever marry someone with what she considers a crummy job, like, heaven forbid, a plumber, and that’s what one of your parents does, she just put down your parent . . . and that’s a total bitch move. Things like, “My mom’s really chill, not like YOURS,” is judging. Being mean to your younger sibling isn’t ok. Making fun of you because of your religion, being vegetarian, political beliefs, or anything else that’s important to you is a no-no.

What can you do if you have a friend who’s acting like a total bitch? Try asking her about it; maybe she didn’t realize she was doing something wrong. But if she tells you you’re being too sensitive or making a big deal of nothing, well, it’s probably time to find someone worth being your friend.

Have you ever had a really bad friend? Have you ever liked someone and then realized they were acting like a total bitch? What did you do about it? Tell me in the comments!

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  • joelin

    My friend is a total bitch I hate me for loving her…..!! She says bad behind my back n then acts like a sweetheart in front of me!! #diebitch!!

  • Olivia

    This is totally my “best friend” she dumps me for the “popular girls.” Never texts back, ignores me at luch and school, talks about me rudely all the time, always dos the first one. We were going to hang out on halloween too and she goes behind my back and makes plans with the popular girls, I am so done

  • Lucy

    My friend is a bitch she pulled on my name tag and it literally made me choke like at a death stage then she said ” see now you know how I feel ” when I never even did anything to her and she being very rude

  • Katherine

    This is so true! My friend can be such a bitch sometimes. She didn’t have all these qualities but she did have some of them. My God I want to punch her so badly! But for now I’ll let it go even though it’s probably not the best thing to do. :(

    • Kayla

      My friend is being so rude right now she keeps pulling my arm and stuff like that in class.Then when I’m hanging out with my friends she pulls then away and I have nobody to talk to and when I try to tell my friends something she does the exact same thing. please help me what to do

      • Kenda

        Tell your teacher about the shit she does and maybe she will (teacher) keep an eye on her actions hope this helps !

  • georgia

    My friends barely bitch about me, or so I like to believe. However I caught one of my friends whispering to a few others that I was copying “his thing” and it really ticked me off; I wasn’t even copying him!

  • alice

    My “friend” does everything you just mentioned, I don’t know why but I get the feeling that she is only my friend because she can slack me off so easily! Its not the first time I have had a “friend” like this who thinks that a he is the most important person in the universe! So on the second last day of y9 (she has been absent and any day she is at school she is blanking me) she corners me and I ask her what’s up and why has she been ignoring me I guessed she wasn’t very happy and needed some alone time so I had been hanging out with other people. She’s like “I can’t remember why I was mad at you” then ” oh her I was showing you what its gonna be like in y10″ what does that mean? Then she calls me clingie and laughs in my face. I ask her why it even matters because we hardely ever spend time with each other anymore and actually I have been talking and hanging out with other people for weeks. Then she says that they didn’t really want me hanging around with them because I am “too babyish” apparently. To be fair it was only playing around and they were doing it too. Then she is absent the next day. She later trys to be nice to me on Facebook to myself I’m like f off bitch.