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Just like any other part of a person’s body, not all penises were made the same. In fact, some are kept au naturale… and by that I mean that not all guys are circumcised. There are lots of guys out there who have a foreskin on their penis and are uncircumcised. If you’ve never seen one, you might not know how to handle it, and you’re probably not alone there.
We realized that when we saw this post in our message boards. One girl wants to know how to deal with an uncircumcised penis, and we love that a bunch of girls were there to offer advice. If you’ve ever wondered the same thing, check out what these girls had to say, and then give us your opinion on the topic.
lovelife1014 said:
I really like this guy I work with. We’re both super into each other. We make out all the time, and last night I stayed the night at his house. We didn’t have sex or even oral or handsy stuff. But I did find out that he’s uncircumcised. I’ve never been with someone who wasn’t circumcised and I honestly have no idea what to do with it. How do I touch him? Is sex any better/different? How do condoms work on uncut guys? I have so many questions and no answers, please help.
bunny97 said:
It’s a natural thing that all men are born with. Sure, it looks a little different, but in a lot of cases it makes fooling around feel better to the guy, it’s not hard to clean… I don’t see a huge difference.
To answer lovelife1014, no, you don’t have to be super gentle with it. The only thing I would caution you about is being careful about how far you pull back the foreskin. So when giving him handjobs, grab the very base of it and try not to pull it back a lot, just to uncover the head, because it stings. Other than that…treat it like any other penis!
hotjamale said:
Trust me, if you’re touching him down there, he wont be turned off!
There’s no reason to freak out over an uncircumcised penis! Yes, it may look a little different and you might not be used to it, but other than that, it’s the same as any other penis out there. If you’re worried about hurting the guy, just be a little bit more gentle and ask him “Is this okay?” Encourage him to give you a little direction without saying anything insensitive. I’m sure he doesn’t want to be treated differently because of a little foreskin, so there’s no reason to stress over this!
Have you ever been with a guy who was uncircumcised? Does it freak you out to thin about it? Or do you think it’s totally normal? Tell us in the comments!
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I live in the UK and it’s considered weird to NOT have foreskin here. I have never been with a guy without it and I don’t even think I have met a guy without it. I don’t understand why it’s a big deal…
My boyfriend (soon to be husband
) is uncircumcised and I actually prefer it that way being as though circumcised penises look strange to me. He’s the only person I’ve ever been with sexually so I wouldn’t know the “other side” of the story personally but as far as it goes for him…he’s very sensitive. It can go for the ups or a downward spiral depending on how it’s handled. But my guess, just like women, it depends on the man. Listen to him and see what’s good for him. Talk. There’s nothing worse in bed than doing something that turns him off such as pulling the skin back too far or pulling it up too far or tugging on it. That’s really a no-no. Also, it can be used to the advantage during a hj or oral 
For me though, it’s perfectly natural for a guy to still have his “skin”. It’s there for a reason, like Lolly said! It’s not alien, after all.
Do not fool around with your coworkers. it is uncouth.
That is just amazing we make such a big deal out of guys penises and how they look when it does or doesnt have foreskin. We gossip and usually talk about when a guy has foreskin and in (NZ) Kitty says they gossip when a guy doesnt have foreskin.
It seems a lot of countries are more open about seeing penises in everyday life where some places you only see them in porn. And in a lot of open pride parades and certain festivals guys walk around naked showing everything, and in some places you would never see that.
i was surprised when i first saw that the guy i was with at the time was uncircumcised but it ended up being exactly the same protocol as a circumcised penis… not too scary.
every body is born with fore skin. its elasticity must be seen during infant stage. it can be pulled back easily with out pain. in case of few guys, it can not be with drawn back due to lack of elasticity. such cases must be circumcises. there is no harm of it. cleanliness must be maintained since the accumulation will take place under the fore skin.
Where I live (NZ) it’s almost unheard of to be anything but uncut, and it makes the rounds of gossip when you get with a guy who is otherwise.
Guess it’s a cultural and aesthetic thing, but really? It means little.
Is it just me or does that guy in the picture have a great body or what? And whether he would be uncircumcised or not he would be hot either way. And gURL I wish you could show them naked. That would make my day, I mean its just a body and you can say its for educational purposes, thats what they say in our sex ed classes.
handy orten, rgsd56,.
My guy is un-circumsized and it’s not bad at all! In fact, I actually like that he’s uncut. He’s more sensitive, and it’s actually easier for me to give him a bj in some ways. He’s very, very clean so there’s nothing gross about it at all.
My guy is un-c and it’s actually a lot better! He’s a lot more sensitive to touch (of any kind!) Which can go either way – you have to be gentle. Don’t pull the foreskin too far back or it’ll be painful for him. Also, don’t be afraid to ask him what he likes or doesn’t!
Wanting to know more! Foreskin is there for a reason, I am open to it but some of my friends have negative things to say about uncircumcised guys. It would never affect my hook up with a guy if I found him to be uncut, but I just hope he is clean if the oral thing happens.
So many pictures of uncircumcised penises on Tumblr and just from a google search, there is no reason to be shocked how they look, a lot of them actually look sexier to me but sometimes the foreskin does look a little long on some men. Seems like it could be fun to play with.
Does the foreskin ever effect how a guy cums?
DON’T be as rough as you can with a circumcised one. Think of it as being more like your own bits. (That’s one of the subliminal reasons it’s traditionally been cut off) Not only don’t pull it right back (it may sometimes not want to go) but be careful of the frenulum, the little banjostring that joins the centre at the underside to the underside of the glans (head). That’s easily torn.
You CAN be a whole lot more gentle than with a cut one, because the skin itself can detect more than the glans can – especially the “ridged band” that runs right around it, just inside the tip, but rolls out on erection to go just behind the head. He’ll particularly appreciate special attention there with lips or tongue. (I can’t speak for us all, but I’m a guy who has one.)
My guy is uncircumcised, and tbh I prefer it!
I don’t get why uncircumcised penises are supposed to be the weird ones. Dude, you had skin chopped off your dick. Skin that protects your sensitive parts and all the nerve endings within. Leaving it in peace is not the unusual thing here.
As for how to treat it: it’s not a monster. It’s often barely noticeable, because it can get rolled back over the head of the penis when it’s fully erect. You don’t have to worry about always chafing it, like you’d do if all the tender bits were out in the open forever. And girls, if you’re freaking out about touching the icky skin, imagine if you had to have skin taken off your clitoral hood before any guy wanted to touch you.
i don’t understand the big deal..
Personally, I think it’s weird when a guy doesn’t have one haha