Comments on: Is It Okay To Date My Best Friend’s Brother? http://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=my-best-friends-brother A teen site and community for teenage girls Sat, 12 Jan 2013 22:38:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5 By: Cassiehttp://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-298058 Cassie Wed, 26 Dec 2012 22:23:59 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=81718#comment-298058 I had a really bad experience with this. My (ex) best friend dated my brother, and they ‘were in love’ according to him. They broke up and he wanted to get back together, she didnt. He killed himself.

I say dont do it, theres too much at risk

]]> By: Courtneyhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-257828 Courtney Sat, 01 Dec 2012 04:26:31 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=81718#comment-257828 Okay, I dated my best friend (pretty ,uch sister)’s uncle (close in age, long-ish story). Anyway, we started dating at her bat mitzvah, so her entire family was there and they got to see it all happen. The awkward first dance (surrounded by tons of cameras), the shy hand holding, and the serious public goodbye kiss. Now, we lived in two different states, and were 14/16, so go figure, that ended fast. But the fact that he was her uncle drew the whole thing out. Every year I’d stay at his house with her family for Passover and we’d be stealing kisses, and at one point he even snuck down into the room I was staying in at night.. Took me so long to realize that he was never going to want me as a girlfriend again. But yeah, my best friend’s entire family knows. We get picked on for it. It’s seriously awkward too, because my feelings got hurt at the end.
Moral: Don’t do it. It’s just not a good idea. In the moment it seems like a great idea “Yeah, I’m already part of the family, so it’s like I’ll be with him forever!” quickly can turn into “Oh god, I can’t get away from him…”

]]> By: TwistedStarr4http://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-250539 TwistedStarr4 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 00:16:49 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=81718#comment-250539 This has happened to me TOO MANY TIMES! I could care less about it now.
The worst thing that has happened to me through a situation like this is my (used to be) best friend got pregnant with my brother’s baby… YEP! So now I’m just going to warn them once and say I told you so if he screws you over. c:

]]> By: Ray Thttp://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-230210 Ray T Wed, 14 Nov 2012 22:28:40 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=81718#comment-230210 don’t go for it . it doesn’t work I’ve sadly been there before

]]> By: umu thiamhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-210865 umu thiam Sat, 03 Nov 2012 21:12:16 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=81718#comment-210865 Now i have that victoria justice song stuck in my head thank a lot lol

]]> By: Kaylahttp://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-195073 Kayla Sat, 20 Oct 2012 19:13:27 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=81718#comment-195073 My best friend is about 2 years older than me and her little brother is about age. She’s practically my sister but she thinks that me and him SHOULD date, shes the one whos convinced were perfect for eachother. For the last couple years those 2 have rarely lived in the same house with each other because one of thems generally in a group home or something like that. Now that he’s moving home permanintly (for the for seeable future) she’s just moved out. Im wondering how this will work out cause i havent seen him more than once or twice in the last year because he hasnt been living with his family and he just visited them. But now that she’s moved out I don’t have an excuse to go to thier house and get to know him again

]]> By: Shellyhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-180957 Shelly Sat, 06 Oct 2012 17:38:45 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=81718#comment-180957 my bff wouldn’t even date my brother… i dont see who will… no offense

]]> By: Alison Melissahttp://www.gurl.com/2012/10/05/my-best-friends-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-180116 Alison Melissa Fri, 05 Oct 2012 22:40:31 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=81718#comment-180116 I’ve had that situation, and i have for years. His sis is like my sister, but we’ve known each other forever, we have a lot in common. I sit with them both at lunch and all of us are inseparable. Now, me and him are grown up and married with a beautiful baby on the way. SO, sometimes it works, so don’t be discouraged.

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