I’ve been dating my current boyfriend for four years. We have a great relationship, which I think is pretty obvious to anyone who’s ever met either of us or seen us as a couple. Everyone knows I’ve been dating this guy for forever – but I guess that doesn’t stop some people from thinking they can worm their way in.
For the last few months, the same dude has been hitting on me constantly. He’s always flirting with me and sending me major hints that he wants to be more than just friends. I try to ignore him, but he’s so persistent! But the other day, I finally had to say something.
He asked me to go out on a date, and I replied, “Sorry, but I have a boyfriend, and you know that. So you know I can’t go out with you.”
His answer? “Hmm, okay. But let me ask you another question: are you faithful to him?”
It was so creepy and I was totally offended! Um, doesn’t the fact that I’ve been with him for four years kind of imply that I’m faithful to him? For a guy who supposedly knows me pretty well, it hurt my feelings that he thought I would cheat on my awesome boyfriend. And forget about that – I just rejected you! Take the majorly obvious hint and move on.
What’s the most rude thing a guy has ever said to you? Do you think I overreacted about feeling hurt over this? Tell us in the comments!