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Kissthestars said:
Okay, so my crush came out as bi to me today. I really love him more than anything. I’ve never felt this way about anyone before, but the thing is, he has fooled around with guys more than girls… but has only ever been out with girls. I don’t know what to do, help me someone!
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Does it really matter? If he’s bi, he still likes girls, so you still have a chance. My bf knows I’m bi and we have a really strong relationship. Just because he likes the other sex too, doesn’t mean anything? I personally find it a turn on.. ._.
Same here!
from experience, most guys who say they are bi usually turn out to be gay (but they do not say so because they are afraid to limit it cuz they do not want to limit their choices or discrimination). however, that is just my personal experience and that it only most. if he likes you, he may like YOU. not cuz you are a girl, but because you are you.
however, i see that your concern with him is not just because he is bi, but because he has fooled around with guys. are you afraid that if he agrees to date you that he will continue to fool around with them?
he may surprise you. i would ask him out! maybe just as friends, they confess your love. or do something spontanious like kiss him after a movie. if he likes you and agrees to date you, then being bi is probably not an issue (the relationship may not last forever, but it is probably still a good chance for experience and some in the moment/life in the present kinda fun.)
good luck!
My boyfriend is bi. It’s not that big of a deal as long as you trust him enough and know if you were to date him you could trust him then it should be no issue
Also if you are discriminating if you really loved him you wouldn’t give a rat tooth <3
If you care about him as much as you claim, then his sexuality should be something you should at least recognize that you could come to accept. If not, then let him go.
if you love him it shouldnt matter. i was in the same situation, he even had a boyfriend and i still cared. hes still the same person no matter what gender he likes