Check out what’s new on our boards! Right now, girls are talking about on-again/off-again relationships. We loved what this girl in particular had to say about them – her advice is super smart and is something that’s definitely worth reading for anyone who’s in one of these emotional rollercoaster-type relationships. We couldn’t have said it better ourselves:
“I love him. He was just mad. He loves me too. He doesn’t mean it.” … but here you are again, sitting on your bed, ugly crying. Look, every girl wants that perfect guy, and sometimes they do kind of crazy things to have that guy.
On and off relationships are hard and never fun. If a guy dumps you over and over, HES JUST NOT WORTH IT. He wants a little bit of everything, and he just can’t settle down. Let him figure out what he wants to do, and also think about how you want to respond to everything. You were created beautiful, and if he can’t see that, then he’s the one with an issue, not you.
If he honestly is worth it, he won’t make you cry (unless its over something totally sweet he did for you). Think about these things: “Is this something I really want for myself? How will this look in the future? Why do I come back to him every time? Do I like the way hes acting?”
Make yourself happy, because a guy will not. Keep you head held high girly, because I, for one, think you can do better.
Got something to add to this convo? Are you in this situation right now? Do you agree with her? Tell us what you think in the boards!