Once you’re at the dance and mingling with your pals, be sure to get buddy-buddy with the DJ. It’s the easiest way to ensure you’ll hear songs you like and a good way to break the ice with a cute guy: Ask him what he wants to hear, put in a request, and then say to return the favor, he has to dance with you!
And speaking of dancing–if you want to dance, just dance. Don’t worry about what people will think, because chances are they’re either too busy with their own moves or too busy worrying about their own images that they won’t even notice!
And if you don’t want to dance? Mingle, chat, and have fun! It doesn’t make you weird or boring that you don’t want to bump and grind or twist on other people. And if anyone says it does, that’s their own issue.