Comments on: From The Message Boards: My BF Hates Wearing Condoms. What Do I Do?

By: david

david — Mon, 21 Jan 2013 05:18:36 +0000

i hate condoms it destroy pennis some times allergy please kind your male partners

By: mahesoxp

mahesoxp — Wed, 17 Oct 2012 20:32:30 +0000

I’m a guy,my gf doesn’t like condoms and I don’t either,we did it a few times using the pull out method until we decided to always use condoms for the sake of not having an unplanned pregnancy on our door step as the pull out method is risky at times

By: Susie

Susie — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 18:05:05 +0000

It honestly depends on how committed you two are. And how much you trust him.

My boyfriend would rather not have sex at all than wear a condom. And neither of us want that!Lol. He told me that in the past, he’s used the pull-out method and that it is safe. I originally said no way and so we waited a few more months. In that time I grew to trust him and so I tried it without a condom. Let me just say you have to REALLY REALLY trust the guy. He can either not know what he’s doing, or get too caught up in the moment and forget to pull out… it’s always a risk. But if it’s something both you and your partner are into, then it’s something to consider. My bf and I have been using this method for over a year.
(You should also have a backup plan though. Obviously you would only want to do this with someone when you are in a time/place where having a pregnancy is not unimaginable. ie. when you’re 16)

By: Taylarj

Taylarj — Fri, 07 Sep 2012 15:38:57 +0000

I’ve been with a dude who didn’t want to wear condoms, as a result I caught an std. I godt rid of it, it wasn’t a permanent one. But still, the lesson i learned out of this is that if you are going to be in an intimate relationship with a guy who don’t wanna wear rubber, then you need to find a birth control that works for you and you both need to get tested. If a guy doesn’t want to do neither of those things then you don’t need to give it up. Kepping it 100 forreal.

By: Samantha

Samantha — Sun, 02 Sep 2012 23:45:11 +0000

No condom, no sex. That’s how I got here.

By: heath

heath — Fri, 31 Aug 2012 10:27:13 +0000

in my opinion this person has trouble getting laid, also possible virgin

By: heath

heath — Fri, 31 Aug 2012 10:25:43 +0000

pull out method worked 100% of the time with my ex.
but choose your positions wisely! once we were in this position where i couldn’t pull out quick enough, i was sort of sitting cross-leggedish and she was sitting on me… absolutely humping me and i shot on her down stroke. hahaha. actually it’s less funny than it sounds, she ended up having to take the pill.
apart from that pull out method works fine if the guy is in touch with his knob, so to speak.

By: Amy

Amy — Fri, 31 Aug 2012 08:32:05 +0000

i told him that if theres no condom, there wont be sex either. (cuz it not only prevents me from getting pregnant but it also stops me from getting hiv or aids)

By: Tfifany

Tfifany — Tue, 28 Aug 2012 16:27:09 +0000

@ Emma:

7 times? You use a pull out method 7 times and you think it’s safe 100% of the time? Ignorance is bliss, but it’s just a matter of time before you’re pregnant. Thats pretty much the dumbest method of birth control I’ve ever heard. Next to just “knowing” you won’t get pregnant, which is pretty much the same thing more or less.

By: Emma

Emma — Sat, 25 Aug 2012 19:52:11 +0000

Well, my boyfriend doesnt like using condoms. So we just dont use them, and just use the pull out method. And thats worked for us over 7 times(: So let it goooo.