Check out what’s new on our boards! Right now, girls are talking about losing their virginity:
I’ve been in a serious relationship for a while now and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend. We’re already engaged, so I know that he’s the person I want to lose it to, but I’m afraid of the pain that comes with it. Now that I’ve found the right guy, I really wanna overcome my fear. But there’s always the thought in the back of my mind on how much it will hurt.
He’s very “big”, and I know that is usually a good thing, but it’s not really soothing right now. I made the mistake yesterday of watching a virgin pornography, and there was blood. A LOT of it, in my opinion. So I think I just made my fear worse. I was wondering if you girls had any advice to give me and if you can even tell me about your experience losing your virginity. So that maybe I can see it’s not that scary at all. Thanks.
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