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“Is he BIG?” they all wanna know.
Well he’s tall, you think, and kinda thin, but that’s not what they mean. They’re talking about the penis. Yup, his willie; also known as the schlong. They want to know if he’s got a big penis.
How are you supposed to know if he’s big? Sure, you’ve seen it. Heck you enjoyed IT; but you’ve got nothing to compare it with. This is the first penis you’ve ever seen up close and personal.
In the country that brought the world supersizing, it’s no surprise that everyone is size-obsessed. The rumor is that a big penis is a sign of manhood and virility able to bring magical pleasure practically on sight. Guys talk about size, too, and even compare themselves with each other to see where they measure up.
The naked truth?
Penis size really doesn’t matter. It doesn’t make a difference when it comes to sexual pleasure or anything else in life. Some men are longer or shorter, thicker or thinner. There’s a saying: “It’s not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.” It means that it doesn’t matter if he’s got a big penis or not, but how he uses what he has with you that matters. Bigger or smaller, a man could be a perfect fit for one woman and not the next. It’s all a matter of preference.
It’s like with our breasts. Are you an A cup, B cup, C cup? It doesn’t really matter when it comes to sexual pleasure, right? Some partners feel that any more than a handful is a waste. Some like bigger boobies. To each his or her own.
What really matters?
The bottom line is STOP focusing on size. The questions that matter after a sexual encounter are: Did YOU enjoy it? Was he respectful of you? Were you both willing to play safely? If the answer to those questions is yes, then you’ve found the perfect lover for you to explore with. Those are the things to BRAG about.
So how do you respond to, “Is he big” if you don’t know OR if you just don’t want to answer? Just smile your winningest smile and say, “He’s the perfect fit for me.”
At the end of the day, chica, that’s all that matters.
Have you ever encountered this, “sizeable” question? How do you respond when your friends want to know if your guy has a big penis? Tell me everything in the comments!
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One time there was this dude who was white and his f pick was like 13 inches erect. His name was like Jonah falcon
I’m 30 years old and my dick is 6.25”x 4.75”. I have been with 65+ women and I have only felt undersize once, The women was 34 years old at the time and she was 6’0” tall and weighed appx 135-140lbs..She was a beautiful black women, her vagina looked like a sub bun, (big thick pussy lips) it was a good fit until she got really aroused and that thing opened way up on the inside. I could only feel the opening. She had a couple orgasms that first night (we had sex 4-5 different times) but I felt to small for her and broke it off.
30% of the women I’ve been with couldnt take all 6.25, I would bottom out at around 5-5.5”. Most of the others I could fill up good and out of 65+ women i’ve had repeat sex with. So i’m pretty comfortable with what I got and I think it’s average sized. So unless you run across a size queen most guys should be a good fuck if you know how to use a 5” dick.
I might get stoned for this but, in my experiences black women have the biggest vaginas (but give the best BJ”s) white and hispanic women come in a bit smaller, and Asian women are much smaller (width & Length) but are below average in the sack. I would prefer to have sex with white women because they are the best all around. But just to be clear, the best sex I have had to date was with 2 Latino girls, they were very Freaky!!!!
it has taken me years to get over my serious, major obsession, and i do not think i am yet over it. I have blown up about it to my girlfriend and everything just to get her honest opinion because she is really inconsistant with the answer. But she has called me big and i guess that is fine with me.
7.2 x 5.5 and kinda wanting to be bigger… Or at least to fit a magnum haha
Well, that’s pretty tiny….
I hear there are pills and Internet forums full of advice!
pills do not work. Nothing can really make it bigger except surgery, which is risky and expensive, and jelqing excercise, which i do but it takes persistance, time and commitment and it barely pays off. Im fine with seven inches but i just wish i was bigger
I’m 7.5″ long and 6″ around and I wish I wasn’t all the time, especially now that I fins that it doesn’t matter what size I am. I’ve been with my girlfriend for like 1.5 years and I don’t want her to not want me just because I’m too big for her
I don’t want to have sex, I just want to make her happy. And I don’t want her to not like it or be afraid that I’m gonna hurt her. It doesn’t help that were both virgins either, so that doesn’t help her fears I bet.
Hey, I’m 16 and I am 7 inches long and 5.5 around, I think I’m pretty big. my girlfriend, thinks I’m too big and that I hurt, so we do lots of oral.
I’m 14 and i have a 7 inch long, 5 inch circumference penis, i think im pretty big, but i dont wanna be to be honest.
Most girls I dated in HS were friends of past dates, this just confirms why they were interested. I am average looking, but some of the best looking girls asked me out. Many had boyfriends and wanted to see me without letting others know. It was not until after college that I dated girls that actually liked ME first and not my size only.
I’m 19 years old and my penis is seven inches long and two inches wide girls think I’m pretty big.
Lol @ those guys who think 6 inches is big hahaha
Yo. My cousin is in a little trouble, he is maybe going to try to have sex with his girlfriend, and he is afraid of that he thinks he have a small dick. He asked me to help him, so i posted this question here; How do you get a bigger dick? Answer only that question, nothing else. Thanks
There’s no permanent way to make it bigger, penis pumps are only temporary. Tell him that if he’s ready to do it, then he should be happy with his size. If the girl laughs or makes fun of him then that’ll just be another lesson. Don’t have sex with immature girls. Hope that I helped you and him:)
Very nice article indeed, the size matters. But also remember that the penis is a tool, when you know how to use it, no matter what size it is.
Hi! I measured my 17-year-old boyfriends penis because when I first saw it I thought that it was really big. It was 8 inches long and 10 inches in circumference but I can’t compare it to anything as he is my first one. Is it normal to have a penis that big?
Google mr average lifestyles data; it’s the best study conducted on penis size and all the data’s right there. I could tell u that he’s big, but I’m a guy who likes to see and play around with the numbers
I have a 5 1/4 ” by 5 3/4″ penis when hard .The most consistant comment that women have made is ‘you have a nice thickness’. The key is to insure that the woman is satisfied first which I always insure happens.
Size-wise is only important when there is a big disparity between the vagina opening and the hard penis. Only three women of approximately 80 that I have been with have had vaginas that didn’t touch all sides of my penis. Then you can concentrate on oral or adapt with a ‘thickener’ with a clit tickler if your partner is adaptable.
It took me a while to learn but the rule is never quit on a woman.
Believe me, bigger is not always better–I speak as a man. I am much larger than average and it has often been difficult. For example, with my first girlfriend, when I was 18, we mostly did “heavy petting” until she was ready. She wanted me to get undressed in front of her so that she could see my penis and be less nervous. I was very nervous myself and when I pulled down my pants, she started laughing and looked away! She then said we should try it again another time. I was very hurt… Then I got a im from her best friend later that night asking me how big my penis was. I asked why, and she said that my girlfriend was terrified of how large I was! On the one hand, I was relieved–I didn’t know if I was big or small–but it was also tough! Also, I dealt with some bullying in the shower room in high school due to my large penis. Guys were jealous of it and sooner or later it got out around school… People were always asking to see my penis, which made me very shy… It is also very hard to disguise the bulge down my pant leg–I’ve even had some school girls point on the street!! In any case, I’ve come to accept my body with the help of a girl who loves my large penis!
I know a little bit of how you feel! As a 6th grader I was a full C cup and by high school a 42 DDD. It was a painful blessing! I got teased,guys would grab me as if they were entitled, and it was hard to hide them even under bulky clothing! I “feel” for you! llol
I just turned 18 and im 6.9×5.1 length x girth girls tell me im too big.
my penis is thick (6 inch circ )
It don’t matter to me….
We don’t want to be judged by our bodies and I am sure guys don’t want to judged by their penis sizes. But reality is that we talk about their dicks all the time, we always want to know how things are down there on a guy, especially when its one of our friends dating a new guy.
And if guys do compare and talk about it amongst themselves don’t you think we will also talk about it. Right or wrong when I first see a naked guy I look at his manhood and if its small kind of laugh and if its big I can give it a Wow! And penises are just so visible, so how can you not notice them.
I’ll remember this when my friends ask. I know they will ’cause they’re my whores
I think I’ll just be pissed if they ever really DO ask. I mean, it’s not THEM who’s enjoying it, so, why should they care? If they ever do ask that, I think I’ll remind them of that.
My first boyfriend who’s penis I saw was BIG. Like, 9 inches long 2 inches thick big. And it was actually kind of gross. It pretty much limits what you can do with it; can’t give much of a blowjob or even a handy when you can hardly hold it.
My current boyfriend is nearly half that size, and I seriously DON’T CARE. I know he loves me and if what we’ve done so far is any indication, there will be no worries about pleasure when it comes to sexy times.
Guys it don’t matrtere what long the penis is what’s matter is how much he loves you and a ccept you of course its fun to have sex but it more important to see if he really love or just having fun !!!!!!!