Your Complete Guide To Saying You’re Sorry

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You’ll have better luck apologizing to your BF if you make eye contact! | Source

So you majorly messed up with your guy. This may be one of the trickiest sitches to get into, because (gulp) unlike a bestie or family member, this is someone you may well have been intimate with–and he’s someone who can leave. That’s a scary thought, but you need to ask yourself: Are you truly sorry for whatever you did, or are you simply scared of being alone?

If it turns out you really do feel legitimately guilty, the last thing you want to do is bug him. Most guys aren’t born communicators, and a lot of them tend to get quiet when something is bothering them. Don’t force him to respond to you right away, but let him know how you feel: Make eye contact, touch his arm, and let him know how sorry you are that you hurt his feelings. Ask how you guys can make it better and prevent the same issue from coming up in the future. Guys are inherent problem solvers, so he’ll probably be open to coming up with solutions with you when he’s ready.


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3 Comments

  1. avatarSimone says:

    You could try talking to her via email or texts, I think it makes it easier to communicate your feelings cuz you’re not actually talking to them in person.

  2. avatarravenamy says:

    i think people should just relize there mistakes and know that apologizing is the right thing to do.

  3. avatarLily says:

    Me and my BFF get along really well, most of the time. The problem is, we both hate being wrong. When I am wrong I will admit it, but when shes wrong she keeps arguing because she refuses to be wrong! Its the most annoying thing, I love her to death but we fight over the stupidest things because she has to have her way all the time. When we argue its like she won’t even let me talk either, she just says “Ok Ok Ok I get it” When I try to say something. I just want to yell at her “You DONT get it because you won’t let me SAY it!!” I really don’t want to let her go as my BFF but it really puts a dump on my mood for the day when we fight. I need some help!

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