Comments on: What Is Virginity?

By: Mary

Mary — Tue, 11 Jun 2013 00:58:34 +0000

I agree!

By: Mary

Mary — Tue, 11 Jun 2013 00:57:45 +0000

14 is a little young in my opinion, I’m 17 and I still havent lost it but If you believe you are ready then go for it just be safe and be aware of the risks

By: Liz

Liz — Sat, 08 Jun 2013 11:49:05 +0000

So, I just got fingered for the first time yesterday. Me and my boyfriend have been together over 3 months now and he asked me if i was ok to go further. I have just turned 14 and have now officially gone the furthest in my group of friends. Does this make me a slut? i enjoyed it, but i’m not sure if it’s right, or if im still a proper virgin. Ahhhh! I don’t knoooooww!!! please help…

By: Alison

Alison — Tue, 04 Jun 2013 11:46:19 +0000

Sweetheart you are definitely still a virgin, please don’t feel bad or wrong about what happened. I completely understand how a religious upbringing could affect the way you feel about sex and intimacy, but please don’t let it. You’re beautiful and sex is beautiful too. You have done absolutely nothing wrong. The first time he puts his hand down there will always be confusing, but you need to understand that it’s okay and it should feel beautiful, natural and right. If it doesn’t, there’s nothing wrong with you, it’s not your fault, it’s the guy’s. Please don’t feel guilty or sad.

By: Brianna

Brianna — Sat, 01 Jun 2013 15:30:52 +0000

For me I had sex but not really, my bfs penis was only in me for 14 seconds at the moment. Does that still count?

By: Gabriel

Gabriel — Wed, 29 May 2013 12:54:24 +0000

I’ve wondered the same thing becuase I was raised really religious. My mom never really talked to me about any kind of sex. All I knew growing up was that sex was bad. I Never really considered any other form of sexual intimacy(Like Oral, or Touching Someone Else’s Private Area) I just literally had never even thought about it or did anything like that at all.I just got my first kiss this year. I’m 22. And that led to other things. I wasn’t ready to do these things but the guy kept touching me and I couldn’t control myself, so I let him touch me(down there). I felt completely horrible afterwards and there was also a little blood, a weird colored blood kind of purple-ish. Now I feel like i’m no longer innocent or a virgin.I don’t know what to do, I Feel so awful about it all the time. becuase of my religious upbringing. I didn’t have sex with him but somehow I feel so dirty and nasty.

By: Kylie

Kylie — Sun, 26 May 2013 22:02:29 +0000

First off, I’m still a virgin.
That being said I think that virginity is a really personal thing. In my opinion oral sex, mastrubation, and fingering don’t count. Coming from a straight girl’s perspective I think that you give up your virginity when you have penetrative sex for the first time.

By: Cammy

Cammy — Sat, 18 May 2013 03:41:56 +0000

yeah you are, as long as he doesnt put his thing in you. & it depends if you count oral sex, or not thats up to you

By: Helen

Helen — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 16:41:31 +0000

i lost my virginity to my BF when I was 15 years of age. the thing is that u should never regret for any of ur actions. you may not feel comfortable in terms of “which was the right time” or “which should the guy be”, but realise that its another lesson for life. i mean that next time ur going to have sex u will be more aware of the situation and more mature to simply say “no” or just wait to feel more sure about ur partner and his intentions. personally my first time was just the way I wanted it cause firat of all I was ready, I loved my BF who also loved me and I was emotionally ready to undergo the whole process. so its a matter of right judgment. putting urself first is really important.

By: Ktalinadu1

Ktalinadu1 — Fri, 29 Mar 2013 15:38:05 +0000

Ok I’m kind of confused, I don’t know whether I’m a virgin or not. My boyfriend fingers me all the time and he really wants to give me oral and lately we’ve been having phone sex almost every night. I really want to be considered a virgin but I’m not sure…