Comments on: I Wish I Knew Friends Are More Important Than Boys

By: Katrina

Katrina — Wed, 12 Dec 2012 04:12:59 +0000

I’ve never chosen a girlfriend over a bf but that’s because I balance them equally. My bf’s really sweet! His names Matt and we were best friends at first but then one night, this happened:
Matt: I like this girl but I don’t know if she likes me back. What should I do?
Me: Follow your heart…
Matt: What do you think my heart says?
Me: I dunno… I’m not your heart…
Matt: But you’re most of it…
I blushed then smiled at him. Right before I knew what was happening I was so happy that… I KISSED HIM. It was my first kiss and we’ve been together for 3 years since then… (:

By: jordan

jordan — Fri, 30 Nov 2012 21:45:35 +0000

so i dont no i guess im looking for advice… i messed up big time my friend K. she was like my sister you know for like 13 years. well her and this guy R, dated and broke up she said she was done but i should have known how she really felt… i was stupid and slept with him..i shouldnt have believed his lies… thats no excuse though. but its been since 2 months? and she just found out.. i couldnt face her i just couldnt do it cause i knew i would loose her so i was going to wait cause she had just recently told me she still loved him so i dont shes obviously very upset and i mean i feel really guilty since it happened but i wont go into those details but she just said she doesnt know what to do with our friendship.. i guess im asking on advice with what to do now? what else should i tell her… i dont know what to do

By: Someone

Someone — Mon, 22 Oct 2012 15:26:11 +0000

I the same experience…I have a best bud named W we always hang out but then a girl named J came in to our life which ended our friendship.J likes me and i like her back but she also likes W.We all started to hangout and i always treat J better then W.W who might have felt extremely jealous kept trying to pull us apart and when i found out he was doing this we had a big argument and he blurted out he did not care about us anymore(Me and J).The best friend I ate with, sleep with just broke up cause of one girl whom liked us.We were all like brother and sister and all of this just disappeared. missing W alo

By: I dont regret it

I dont regret it — Fri, 31 Aug 2012 07:25:40 +0000

When I was in highschool I had a best friend, T. T went out with this really sweet boy who did everything she asked and bought her everything she wanted. He absolutely adored her. One day however, she walks into school holding hands and flirting with her guy ‘friend’ B. Her boyfriend, N, was upset but he eventually went back to adoring her. Whenever he did something she considered embarrasing she would threaten to dump him- basically she wasn’t very nice to him at all. On the day of their five month anniversary she broke up with him after getting her presents but before giving him his. He was devastated because no one had seen it coming. Now, T and I were like sisters- my family was like hers (she lived with her aunt) and we were joined at the
hip. After she broke up with N she all of a sudden hated him- but N and I were still talking, and T and I’s other best friend L were too. She got mad at only me for talking to him and we eventually ended our friendship. Now, though, I’m glad I did it. N and I are still friends and have been for years now, and he’s a much better friend then she ever was.

By: Jenny

Jenny — Sun, 22 Jul 2012 18:04:57 +0000

I would never date a best friend’s ex because they could have some undiscovered feelings left over (also it’s just kind of wrong), I don’t feel sorry for people who have friends that have this (the above) happen to them. You never told your “best friend that was more like a sister” that you still liked him- it was your fault.

Instead of saying always put girls before boys, how about trying to put the truth before lying? You could have saved your relationship with her and never have gone through what you did. She was your best friend, she would have understood if you still liked D.

By: Sasha

Sasha — Fri, 20 Jul 2012 19:55:10 +0000

My friend got a hot bf last year. We hardly ever talk anymore because he is the only person she hangs out with. I understand that it is her first bf but when she isnt with him, she pays no attention to you because she is constantly smsing him. Our great friendship that we had is now over. Maybe i will understand why she is like this when i get my first bf.

By: Sierra

Sierra — Thu, 19 Jul 2012 20:20:31 +0000

I have this issue with one of my best friends. She had a boyfriend & I don’t. She chooses him over me in every situation. In fact, she doesn’t even talk to me anymore. I thought we were great friends & stuff. I’ve ALWAYS been there for her & it’s like she doesn’t even care anymore. She dated this guy before & he was a total jerk & he insists that he’s changed, but I don’t think he has. I told her to not date him again because chances are he’ll be the same person again. But none of that stopped her. They’ve been dating for 3 months & she thinks she’s in love at 14. We don’t speak to each other any more but I’d love to she just won’t. I miss her so much & will always love her as a sister because I’m that good of a friend. I will always be there for her & that’s it. I just want my best friend back…

By: Sweettreat

Sweettreat — Thu, 19 Jul 2012 19:12:04 +0000

“I knew that deep down, she knew the truth.” This statement bothers me, because I’ve heard it in real life. If you lie to people and, like in this case, insist that you don’t like the guy, why should they feel obliged to be your mind readers? If you keep insisting you have no feelings for a guy when a friend is asking, you are basically saying “Go ahead and date him”–because why else is your friend asking if you’re crushing on him?
Girls need to learn how to be honest. If you’re going to keep your feelings inside from your BEST friends, you will get hurt, and there’s really no one to blame but you.