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He’s cute. He’s hilarious. He’s sweet. He’s … Your friend. D’oh! So you’re in the friend zone. It happens, but it’s totally not the end of the world–you can get out of there, especially since studies show that your guy friends are most likely attracted to you!
Here’s how to hop right out of the friend zone and into the girlfriend zone!
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Would You Rather?
ok so I have liked this guy for a year and I know he likes someone else because he told me. He has told me some really personal stuff before. Latelly he has been talking to me less. I think that I should just give up
What does it mean if he was dating you and THEN kicked you out to the Friend Zone
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okay i have a huge problem im not friend zoned i am sister zoned, this kid has been my best friend since we were 3 im not even kidding we maet in preschool and have been bff’s ever since , this is how badly i am sister zoned, our parents let us have sleep overs, we’ve shared a bed, hes gone on a weekend vacation with me and i dont know if he gets a hint but he let me lay my head on his lap when we were on the beach and that night and we go out all the time for movies and his friends all joke that we should just get marrried and i just have to sit there and laugh with him we have the best conversations and i jjust ugh some one help me please how can i get out of this zone !
p.s. ive tried all of the above weve even made cupcakes together and got in a frosting war like wtf he cant get a hint ( because if you get frosting in my hair i will usally flip shit but i didnt ) i need help please!!!!!!!!!!
Two problems here. One, he already knows that I like him (thanks to the “nicest friend ever”), and two, now we’re kinda sorta halfway in the friendzone.. HELP!
ugh i hate those “friends” but for your problem i think you should confront him if he hasnt been like extremly awkward you should be good
I have a friend named Jacob and I’ve been completely head over heels for him since the day I met him. I saw him and asked my friend, “whos that? He’s cute!” and then ever since that day we’ve become best friends. He calls me every night (I never have to call him) and he’s always got something to show me or tell me or something of that nature. He asks me to meet up with him in the mornings before school to listen to his favorite band. When we first became friends he walked me to class for about a week or two. We have piano class together so he’s always sitting right beside me and when I don’t understand something, when he helps me he’s always so close to me, touching my leg against his, hands touching, etc. I don’t know if I’m in the friendzone, because while all of those signs sound promising, He tells me when he thinks a girl is attractive or “hot” or whatever and I’m a size 12 girl. I’m not exactly “skinny”. So I feel unattractive when he rarely compliments me. Sorry this is so long but it’s been over 3 years and I just can’t stop having these feelings for him. I have started to come to the conclusion that I love him. There’s so much more to show that he likes me but there’s those little things to say, ehh maybe he doesn’t. Help? (:
Go for it nothing to lose you sound confident and if he says no take it in stride because size 12 is a nice size to see a woman.
OMG. Now, that I have read this, I know I made a huge mistake. I am literally in luuurve with my best friend, and his best friend picked up on it and told everyone, so then i was in huge trouble. and the good thing was, he didn’t believe me! (my crush, I mean)
Well, im going to try that advice and stuff that I learnt and hopefully we’ll be out of the friend zone in no time!
I’m 17 and he is 19 I fell for him a few months after meeting him. I am forever friend zoned because not only does he like someone else but I’ve told him I like him…
I am convinced that I will be stuck in the friend zone forever! Honestly…all the tips were really good and well thought out, but I’m just afraid. I’ve gone to church with this guy for like 4 years, and we are really good friends. But I’m afraid to use any of those tips…like what if he just flatout rejects me? Then I would have lost one of my best friends (b/c I dont think I could be friends with him after that). What should I do??
Hahaha been there, and still there!!!! What I did, was I put a really out of character, pushy fb post/message, and he kinda freaked out, and talked to me about it, and that’s when I told him I liked him. Lol when he asked what the post was about, I told him that my cousin (i don’t have any btw) hacked my fb and posted it! So far its gone pretty good, except he hasn’t talked to me in 3 weeks. DERP
I had a huge crush on a guy for four years! He always thought of me as a ‘friend’ every time I tried to interact with him. I told my best friend one day but little did I realise she wasn’t good at keeping secrets and told everyone in our class! He soon found out and now we at secondary school but I havn’t seen him since, how can I get back in touch?