Comments on: My First (And Last) Time Bullying Someone

By: Cyanveins

Cyanveins — Sat, 08 Dec 2012 17:09:03 +0000

Oh gosh this is just like me in 7th or 8th grade. I had a best friend but she constantly annoyed me- and like you said she was also “bossy, bratty, dramatic”. We would always bicker and put each other down. One day I was fed up because I had other friends and had tried to give me and her a little space. I thought if we spent less time together she wouldn’t get on my nerves as much. She came up to me and my group of other friends and I tried to have a unemotional response to whatever she said. Then she asked why I was acting so weird and I said,” You’re really annoying me. That’s it.” She then went off and cried with her other friends and I didn’t feel bad right away. The next day I felt completely horrible and we wouldn’t speak to each other. That night I texted her and told her how bad I felt. When we went to school (it was a morning pep rally) I apologized and almost started crying because we had been like sisters. We hugged and got over it and now we’re friends again (but not nearly as close). I am trying to be really nice to her, but she now puts me down alot AGAIN. I try to shrug it off. I know we’ll never be as close as we once were and I’m totally fine with it. We’ve both got new besties now and couldn’t be happier.

By: jess

jess — Tue, 04 Sep 2012 19:58:42 +0000

its bad what u did because she was a friend of u ,but all girlsmare bitchy sometimes even the sweeties ive bullied only one girl,but we were never friends,she was the schools biggest looser and wanna be,i hate wanna bees’ sooo anoying

By: MiaDaBoss

MiaDaBoss — Tue, 14 Aug 2012 23:41:15 +0000

I was once best friends with this girl named Itzel that I knew since kindergarten,but ever since we went to the 5th grade,we both started to drift apart and hang out with other people.One day we both had an argument about me never going over to her house and hanging out with our other friends.Sooner or later we both weren’t friends and for prom we didin’t hang out,or for or 5th grade graduation we didin’t talk to one in other.Now that I’m going to the 6th grade I’m deciding to move on in world without Itzel.I’m actually glad that we’re not friends anymore cause she treated me more like an idiot than a friend.Plus she started to hang out with the popular girls in my class and she started to act differently around them when ever I hung out with them at school.So I’m relived that we’re not BFF’s anymore =)
~MiaDaBoss <3

By: G

Thu, 09 Aug 2012 01:17:58 +0000

I have bullied the sane way as M… Just that they all said it to me together and it started like this:
Me and J were besties since first grade and we never argued and stuff like that. We were like sisters. She had this Friend M wich was verry jelous of our friendship. I didn’t take much thaught in to it then, but a litle later she started to call me names , insult me and sometimes when i,m passing through her she would put her leg, so that i would trip. I’ve argued with her A LOT. So eventually we became the worst enemies.
But one day i’ve had enough and i wanted to end this, so i went to her and apologized for what i have said, she did the same.
After some time me, my BFF J and M became verry close friends(at least i rhougt so).We wold spend time together, have sleepovers and do almost everything together.
On winter vacation i went to visit my grandparets is an other county for 2 weeks(school started about a week ago when i came back). We have contacted eachother on FaceBook every day, and i told them i’d bring them litle presents.
When i came back to my class, I was so happy to see them again, and I gave those litle presents.
I saw that that M was acting a little bit strange lately, so I took J for a moment and asked her wat’s up with her, because i knew M tells her everything. She looked at me like she was woried, and told me everythings fine.
We came back and M (the girl that was my enemy) just came and told:
- Look, we can not be friends any more, because you like make up and stuff.
She actually said that to me( i knew that i liked to dress up nicely, do my hair, put on make up, wile M and J never cared about it at all). I was shocked.
I called her names and stuff since i was verry angry and mostly sad. I also did the same to J because she lied to me. After that i ran to the toilet and started to cry for about 5 min. and after i decided to come back to my class.
I asked my good friend E to sit with me. She understood me and my suffering.
After two lessons i went to the toilet to blow my nose. After i came back I found M next to E.
“I think we shouldn’be friends any more” said E.
She went to sit next to J and M now, as I was left alone in my two seat desk alone.
I’ve decided i would report sick to the school nurse, so that i could go home early.
But before i had to write a test, in the next class.
The hour was terifying because all the time i had to repeat to my self “Don’t start to cry in class’.
After the test i wnt to the nurse and told her that i have a verry bad headache. It was good luck that she let me out.
After i came home i cryed all day, and everytime i would think about it i woud cry.
After all of that, I heard M gossiping about me to everyone. She even told “it’s so good that G doesn’t hae any friends any more”. This hurt me a Lot.
Now i’m in a new school because i couldn’t take it any more. Even now when I have new friends, sometimes i remember it.

By: Aisling

Aisling — Thu, 26 Jul 2012 04:59:36 +0000

That’s not really bullying. It’s not like you hounded her and constantly put her down just to be mean. Yeah, it was a mean thing to do, especially on graduation day, but it’s not that big of a deal. You shouldn’t let everything bother you like that. I don’t even remember half of the friends I had in middle school.

By: Countrygurl

Countrygurl — Mon, 09 Jul 2012 03:11:34 +0000

Ohmygosh! I thought I was the only one that wrote notes to my friends at the end of the year! :O At the end of every school year I write letters to my 5-10 closest friends telling them how much they mean to me and how much I’ll miss them and I always include inside jokes and stuff But then the bad part comes where all the other people who didn’t get one… Well you’ve gotta try to explain it to them without being mean. Sometimes they take it the wrong way but I’m just like “Well I’m sorry I don’t feel like we are that close, okay.”

And wow, reading this made me think of what I said I was going to do on the last day of 8th grade…. I was going to write everybody (that I hated) a note and slip it in their locker (anonymously) telling them why I hated them and why they don’t deserve friends and how much of I bitch I think they are. And then they would never know it was me! I’m still deciding what to doo… Well I’ve got a whole ‘nother year left to decide.

By: basschick

basschick — Sun, 08 Jul 2012 13:12:26 +0000

wow. this is horrible. everyone in this story it just…. MEAN. i am glad you feel bad about it, that was a really horrible thing to do. however, it was in the past. i hope neither one of you decide to be friends again because this seamed to be a very unhealthy relationship from the start. not just you and M, but the group as a whole… but i mean, maybe both of you will learn something from this experience. i hope you did (it seams like you are sort of saying you do) and hopfully she did as well.

By: Zoey

Zoey — Sun, 08 Jul 2012 08:28:35 +0000

I think that what you did was`nt much of a bullying situation, you didnt like her. I mean it could have been worse, you could have publicly humiliated her. Don`t feel so bad about it.

By: Enn

Enn — Sat, 07 Jul 2012 23:58:21 +0000

But that’s not bullying! Ok, it was quite a brutal way to end a friendship but just giving a letter to a frenemy, as you describe her, doesn’t constitute bullying- well not in my opinion anyway smh

By: Tanja98

Tanja98 — Sat, 07 Jul 2012 23:09:15 +0000

I was the M. in this story. I also had 2 BF’s, but they were living in other part of town, so we weren’t seeing each other so much. I think that they started to gather more each other than with me. We were going out sometimes, but they were more together. They were gathering secretly without me. I wasn’t supposed to know that but I found out when I went out with my cousin. Than they started using me, like copying homework [cause I had best marks in class, and they also did just because of me helping them cause I was afraid to be alone], but than I realized that they are not only two girls in the world and simply sat in other desk. Than we stopped talking and I think that they are happier now without me and they are almost most popular girls in school now. Now I live the life I always wanted. I don’t depend on anyone and I’m free Soon I’m going to High school and I’m gonna find new friends outa there