Comments on: Kim Kardashian Was 14 For Her First Time At Sex–With Mom’s Approval

By: kayleigh

kayleigh — Wed, 28 Nov 2012 05:03:17 +0000

Rubbish, 14 is not too young at all. It is all down to the individual. You are ready for sex when you start having your periods. Society, religion, parents and the law will try and convince you that you have to delay sex and not start too early. They will use the excuse of morals, immaturity (mental, physical, emotional), career etc etc to try and stop you from having sex early.
What they dont realise is that we have emotional needs too and that it is normal and natural that we may want to feel close to someone and may have sex to compliment those emotions.
Also, they must remember that the desire to mate and have sex outsmarts reasoning and logical thought and the need for emotional closeness, when strong and intense, can lead to sex.
I have a boyfriend who is studying biology, behaviour and anthropology. He is a lot older. The more I learn about behaviour and normal responses, the more I believe that we are wrong to try and suppress our desires. Behaviour and biology cannot be suppressed by laws.
I lost my virginity when I was turning 12 to someone a lot older. I wanted to be close to this guy and so I lied about my age. I looked older so he believed me. We had a lot of sex and as he had his own place it was even more convenient. I didnt fall pregnant thnakfully.
I think as long as we are careful, understand consequences, dont screw up in grades at school, it should be okay.
I dont think the law can tell me who and when I can fal in love with or with whom to have sex with.
Mental maturity has no part to play in this because as I said even with experience and age, the desire to have emotional closeness and sex outsmarts rational thought.
Thats how we are hardwired. Sorry.

By: Crystal

Crystal — Tue, 25 Sep 2012 21:10:11 +0000

I’m 13, nearly 14 and I know I’m ready for sex, I’m just waiting for the right person to come along. I know a lot of people will say I’m too young but everyone’s different and everyone’s entitled to their own opinion

By: Anna

Anna — Fri, 21 Sep 2012 01:04:07 +0000

wow im impressed. To be married at 14 and to stay married for that long. Good for you for at least getting married when you got pregnant. Too many girls today don’t even marry the father of their child/children.

By: Josie

Josie — Tue, 21 Aug 2012 04:53:51 +0000

I lost my virginity when I was only 13. I was with my boyfriend at his house and we just started to make out and it just happened. But the thing is I lied to him. He was 15 and I said I was 15 too cause I looked like it. I had big boobs and everything. But I did get pregnant even thought we used a condom but it broke. I told my mom and she wasn’t mad because she did the same thing when she was 13 also. I had told my boyfriend and he was soo excited but the bad thing was telling him how old I really was. He didn’t care cause he had already know because all of the girls that were friends with him told him. We got married when I had the baby. It was a girl and now we live at his house cause he has a guest house and that is where we live. The babies name is Genevieve and she is lovely. I am 18 now and he is 19 about to be 20 and we are happily married and we love eachother soo much!!! I am trying to get pregnant again. Wish me luck!!!

By: natalyc97

natalyc97 — Fri, 10 Aug 2012 00:36:31 +0000

At such young age their bodies are probably aint even developed yet lol that’s why she stunt her growth lol that’s probably why she is so short,

By: ImAFemale

ImAFemale — Wed, 18 Jul 2012 06:19:16 +0000

Personally, I believe that 14 is too young to engage in such a lifechanging act. But I think I have some room to talk, because that’s how old I was when I lost my virginity. Just 10 months after I’d had my first kiss, not even with the same guy.
I was so positive I was in love, but looking back now I know that I wasn’t. I’m not so disgusted with the fact that I am not a virgin, because I know it would’ve happened along the road sometime anyway, but the fact that I was only 14 really gets me. It’s been 3 years, and now I can see that I was still a child. I still am, but it’s just so weird for me to think that I somehow thought I was ready at that point. I still had baby fat, I still had braces, I was barely in high school.
When it comes down to it, it is a personal choice. But, I’d still have to say 14 is extremely young. When I told my mom about it months later, she didn’t exactly approve, but she was still very supportive. She had lost her virginity at a young age as well, but after that she never did it again until she was an adult.
I think girls need to know that there’s such a thing as saying no in the heat of the moment. I wish I had thought about that.

By: damiloghauttii

damiloghauttii — Sun, 08 Jul 2012 17:02:12 +0000

Rilli agree wif her its absolutely beta 2 wait 2 lose it 2 som1 special…

By: shawtybadd123

shawtybadd123 — Fri, 06 Jul 2012 06:30:49 +0000

my mom wouldnt approve but she wouldnt really get mad… she lost her virginity at 12 and so did my aunt i guess she thinks that imma follow in her footsteps she said as soon as i start my period she puttin me on birth control so that basically gives me permission…but i really wanna wait till im married and i wanna lose it on me and my future husbands honeymoon night

By: Laura

Laura — Fri, 06 Jul 2012 03:55:32 +0000

I am a Christian and have VERY strong values and morals that come straight from the BIBLE!!!!! I 100% believe that sex should be something that happens only within a marriage! I am 25 and am still saving myself for my future husband! Even if you do have sex before marriage, of course you should be safe but 14 is young and I would never be so chill about it with my daughter if I was a mom! I used to know a girl that had a daughter at 12, a son at 15, and another child (Idk what gender) at 18. If you’re wanting to have sex, think about being a mother when you’re still a child yourself or way worse, think about getting an STD that will haunt you forever & make you miserable (& make others not want to have sex with you down the road)!

As far as the Kardashians go, I am actually a fan! I do not approve of some of their ways by any means but they do seem like sweet, fun people that might be fun to have as friends!

By: hailey

hailey — Wed, 04 Jul 2012 04:59:54 +0000

i really want to but i know my mom wouldnt let me and i wouldnt be emotionaly,physicllaly,or mentally ready to give my virginity to a guy ive known for a little while….ik i probally couldnt wait till i was married but i wouldnt have unprotected sex until ik this is the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with him

iwould wait until i 1-know im ready
2-have a boyfriend ive been with for atleast a year
3-know i wont regret it