Comments on: Confession: I Stalk My Boyfriend’s Ex On Facebook

By: Jazz

Jazz — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 09:04:15 +0000

My boyfriend just found out I was looking at two of his exes on fb. He was very upset and hasn’t spoken to me n 2 days. I didn’t think about how it would make him feel. That was selfish of me. I feel curious/nosey to see for myself about her. I don’t look everyday but I look. We have been together for over 6 months. But I know the effect she had on his life and how much she did mean to him. Which just increases my curiosity. But I never anticipated his reaction when he found out what was going on. Now I’m not sure how he’s going to handle this new info. He could dump me which makes me feel stupid for letting my curiosity get the best of me. He only found out because I wasn’t hiding it. But I wasn’t forthcoming either. I love him and I’m not sure how to fix this. #imessedup

By: k

Tue, 11 Dec 2012 13:34:03 +0000

i dont why i stalk my ex bf’s fiance now !! is that normal ?

By: mr.goat

mr.goat — Sun, 09 Dec 2012 21:37:39 +0000

Is there nothing on TV you dimwitted shallow insecure child? problem 100,001 with social digital networking and lack of ideas of your own.

By: Kassady Davidson

Kassady Davidson — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 17:10:20 +0000

I ahve experienced this first hand! My EX boyfriends NEW girlfriend created a facebook profile to stalk and send harrassing messages to my facebook page. I find it to be completely insane. He and Iare NOT together so why go throug the trouble to do so? Could it be that she found soe text message from HIM to ME tlling me that he loves and misses me and that is tired of her and that he madea mistake by being with her? Either way, I got my phone number changed and would not give it to him EVEN THOUGH we hve a child together. He has even gone so far as to contact my niece and beg her to talk to me and call him on 3 way so he cn speak to me because I wont give him my new number. To me, she is jealous and insecure. Afterall, he was cheating on me with HER!!! So she has known about me for years! What do yu think

By: Harriet Stigner

Harriet Stigner — Fri, 09 Nov 2012 14:10:15 +0000

I’m writing a feature for Cosmopolitan UK about this exact topic, would you be prepared to be interviewed? It would be a good opportunity to promote gurl.com to UK readers?

Harriet x

By: Kim

Kim — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 13:35:18 +0000

I Agree with you, SHAME ON ME. ( I have been stalking my bf’s ex gf for 3 years i think and it’s getting worst and i even stalked her in person even know her house. I really need to STOP this. screw these insecurities.

PS: I created a fake accounts like Facebook, twitter, instagram

By: only me

only me — Mon, 29 Oct 2012 00:30:44 +0000

Sorry, forgot to name the person I was addressing. Its Maria, not you Taryn. My bad.

By: only me

only me — Mon, 29 Oct 2012 00:26:05 +0000

I think this is the worst advice ever. Ladies, do not ask your boyfriend about his ex, thats even weirder then checking her out on facebook. Bad, bad advice. I love how everyone can be so so indifferent to the subject now, but when it happens to them, they are doing the same thing they preached against last month.

By: Priscilla

Priscilla — Fri, 26 Oct 2012 20:46:36 +0000

By the way, he was 17 when he dated her, she lied to him and said that she was 16. When in reality, she was 13. It was already too late and they were dating..he never had sex with her thank god…but that’s good too…He could have gotten in trouble for being with her because he was gonna be turning 18..and she’s still a CHILD.

By: Priscilla

Priscilla — Fri, 26 Oct 2012 20:34:51 +0000

Agreed Manda Lynn.. ^____^