Comments on: No Sex Allowed! Say WHAT?!

By: EruditeGurl

EruditeGurl — Mon, 26 Nov 2012 07:19:04 +0000

Everyone is mentioning laws and sex. LAWS ARE MAN MADE. They are not natural. Can anyone work out why those laws were initiated in the first place and WHEN they were initiated. What rules prevailed before the present rules?
Now for those who call 20 or 21 or even older guys who date younger girls “creeps” are so misguided. They are not creeps. They may be judged by you as creeps based on the present man made laws.
Sex is a normal function and a biological need. Is it so difficult to believe that a 14 yr old girl can be emotonally involved with a 21 yr old guy. Whats the big deal. Love works in different ways. Yes they may engage in sexual activity and it may be inconvenient if she falls pregnant. But it is NO way unnatural or creepy. So stop judging those who get into such relationships.
The laws are too black and white and we see so often how couples decide to elope to escape how the law views them. Many escape to Mexico. In the UK they go over to Europe when the age of consent is much lower. This is through mutual consent. What the law is doing is driving such couples to take drastic measures to be able to love and live in peace far away from our laws that havent kept up with the times. Teen girls are maturing faster than ever and are aware of much more than our parents did. A 14 or 15 yr old these days are far more physically and emotionally developed that someone of the same age from 25 yrs ago. They also are more aware of sex and their emotional needs and will do whatever it takes to achieve that. The law is being irresponsible and driving teens to do drastic, dangerous things. Wake up everybody. Stop being so narrow minded.
I had a much older bf when I was 12 and may I add it was fantastic. It was much better than having a guy my age who had no maturity and all he wanted to do was play with his football.
And finally, some bright spark will bring up mental maturity. Let me ask those who raise such a question…. do you consider yourself mentally mature?? Just because you are 18 and above, suddenly on your 18th birthday you dont magically become mentally mature. I know so many who are 25 or 30 or even older who will never be considered mentally mature. I know many 15 yr olds who are more responsible and mature than many much older.

By: RavenBelle

RavenBelle — Wed, 27 Jun 2012 15:25:12 +0000

I guess it boils down to your own choice. Here in Ireland the age of consent is 17, but I know people who have had sex at 15 and 16. The age of consent is seen as a ‘guideline’ by teens here, who I think need to take it more seriously. Some people I know didn’t even know that sex below 17 years is illegal – they seriously thought it was just advice. And the same with sexting; many of my friends didn’t know it was illegal. I tried to explain that sexting naked pictures under the age of 18 is child pernography, but they say ‘everyone does it’. Uh, yea right. Everyone in their tiny clique. I wish more people would take this more seriously.

By: Wow

Wow — Fri, 22 Jun 2012 00:05:47 +0000

Okay, here’s how that law would be stupid in U.S.
One: putting a sex age limit won’t stop people under 18 or 16 from having sex. They have laws against doing drugs, too, but people still do them. & how dumb would that sound in juvey if you were to say you had consentual sex with you 16 year old boyfriend, & you’re 15?
Two: Not just teenagers & kids get raped. Adults do too. So, a limit makes no sense. Especially if it was consentual. I understand the Statutory rape law, but that’s 100 different.
& Three: Like the article said, why would someone report consentual sex? Some people do have common sense. Now, I don’t care who disagrees with me or not. It’s my opinion & I’m sticking to it.

By: Lolwut

Lolwut — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 18:18:37 +0000

Good job on once again making men seem lime the only ones to molest and rape.

By: Sanjum

Sanjum — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 13:08:57 +0000

Well said! i ws about to write just that

By: Becca

Becca — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 05:29:41 +0000

Even in America, technically, sex under the age of consent is illegal. Here in Michigan the age of consent is 16. If two 15 yr olds were to have sex and then be reported to the police, both could receive convictions of statutory, not that this happens often if at all. It’s not just in India that this is a law. I’m pretty surprised that this point wasn’t brought up. Maybe it isn’t common knowledge in other places, but I’ve been taught this in all of my health classes.

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By: Savani

Savani — Sat, 16 Jun 2012 06:32:56 +0000

The article has got one thing wrong: Girls here do NOT get married before 18. In fact, the minimal age to get married here is 18 for a girl and 21 for a boy. Some remote areas where tribals reside do follow the old tradition but most of the country doesn’t. The information you are providing use to be true years ago, rather generations ago. Sex is not considered a crime here but sexual abuse is. And the rate getting high, the law is partially right. Maybe not for the USA, but for India it is definitely necessary. AND most of the teens do not engage in sex here but of course there are exceptions. So the Indian population is fine with it. The article could be written better as some girls above me mentioned.

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By: Srijanee

Srijanee — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 04:08:25 +0000

I’m 14 and from India. most girls here do not get married before 18. that’s wrong information. but many do, which is against the law.
and as for prevention of the sex before 18, the government isn’t going to take any steps. i’m very sorry to say, but all our govt. cares about is to pass the law somehow, in these kind of cases, and not enforce it.