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As much as we wish that everyone in the world always felt 100% confident and happy with themselves, we know that everyone out there has their own insecurities. Yes, even the super-popular chick in your school and the A-list celebrities in Hollywood.
Whether it’s something about your personality, your bod, or even the way you talk, we’ve all felt a little insecure about something at least once in our lives. So we want to know what makes you feel super self-conscious, or what makes you feel pretty great about being you. Just copy and paste the questions into the comments and go!
1. What is your number one insecurity?
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body?
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body?
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit?
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear?
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone?
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all?
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change?
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious?
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous?
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11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy?
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person?
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls?
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot?
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family?
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure?
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident?
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things?
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities?
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what?
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The Morning After
1. What is your number one insecurity? My body
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body? when ther are heaps of ppl around
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body? When i’m freshly shaved, etc
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit? yes thats why i dont wear them
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear? nah its all good
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone? yes
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all? yes very
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change? um my body ?
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious? never been yet
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous? no its fine
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy? yes
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person? no
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls? yeah
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot? yes
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family? yes
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure? yes two
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident? confident in front of ppl
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things? no
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities? nope
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what? My body
1. What is your number one insecurity? my tummy
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body? my stomache
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body? legs
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit? usually
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear? i don’t care about that stuff
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone? no
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all? i would
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change? stomache. but that’s already in motion
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious? not really, they’ve seen it all before
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous? yes i hate it
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy? no
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person? no
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls? i have friends who are guys, so no
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot? depends how much he said it. like just because i have a boyfriend, doesn’t mean i don’t think other guys aren’t smokin
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family? no
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure? no
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident? confident now
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things? sometimes, but mostly it’s a lack of opinion
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities? no
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what? the bags under my eyes
1. What is your number one insecurity? My skin when I have zits…
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body? I don’t really know…
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body? When I wear my bikini
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit? Yes.
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear? Yeah.
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone? Sometimes…
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all? I haven’t done it.
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change? I have a missing tooth in the right side of my mouth that I wish I could change.
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious? I’ve never gone.
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous? Yeah.
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy? Yes.
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person? Nah.
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls? Yes.
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot? Kinda.
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family? No.
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure? I don’t think so.
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident? More confident
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things? Yeah…
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities? No.
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what? Nah.
1. What is your number one insecurity?
my skin
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body?
when i expose most of my skin, sometimes
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body?
when I’m wearing something i like and it is comfortable
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit?
yes
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear?
yes and no
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone?
i haven’t hooked up with someone
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all?
never have gotten naked with a dude
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change?
my acne
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious?
i haven’t gone to the gyno before
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous?
yes
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy?
not really
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person?
no
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls?
yea
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot?
maybe
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family?
sometimes
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure?
i don’t think so
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident?
half and half leaning on the insecure side more
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things?
yes
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities?
no
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what?
my acne
1. What is your number one insecurity? My stomach
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body? When I’m having a rough day.
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body? When I’m happy or with friends or in a pretty outfit.
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit? I used to be.
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear? Yea
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone? Not really. If they weren’t attracted to me they wouldn’t be hooking up with me.
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all? No, because we developed a really strong trust before that.
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change? My stomach
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious? Not really
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous? It depends on the students and on the subject.
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy? Yes
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person? No
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls? I am okay with it.
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot? No, I ask him sometimes out of curiosity.
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family? Yea
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure? My best friend and my sister.
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident? More confident now that im older.
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things? When it goes against the opinions of people I look up to, yes.
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities? No
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about? My stomach
1. What is your number one insecurity? body hair
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body? when I’m wearing short sleeves or when people star at my arms or face (besides my eyes)
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body? When I’m waxed and when people compliment me haha
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit? ya
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear? yes
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone? don’t know but probably
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all? ya
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change? yes
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious? ya
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous? sometimes
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy? ya
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person? no
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls? yes
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot? yes unless they were celebs haha
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family? sometimes
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure? nope
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident? insecure
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things? no
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities? no
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what? no
1. What is your number one insecurity? the gap between my teeth
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body? at school
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body? when i am in sexy clothes
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit? no
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear? yes
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone? yes
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all? kinda
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change? yes my butt make it bigger
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious? i never been
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous? yes
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11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy? yes
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person? yes, butt try not to be
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls? no
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot? totally
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family? no
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure? yes
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident? more insecure
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things? kinda
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities? no
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what? my gap
1. What is your number one insecurity?
My Body/Weight
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body?
Pretty much everyday but even more while at school
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body?
When I am alone or when I am swimming by myself
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit?
Every single time
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear?
Never
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone?
I have never ‘hooked up’ with someone let alone dated someone but if i had i probably would
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all?
Never been naked with a dude
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change?
My weight and the marks that come with it
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious?
Never been to the gyno but just the thought makes me self conscious
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous?
Not really no
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy?
Yes I started disliking some people that I am really close with or used to be really close with because of jealousy
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person?
Not overly jealous no
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls?
Ya I would be fine with it
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot?
Kind of.. as you can see I have some body issues so I would probably be mad
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family?
About my family? No not really
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure?
No I hide it pretty well
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident?
More insecure
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things?
No
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities?
No
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what?
No just my body but I know my body is fixable as long as I put the effort into fixing it such as eating healthier and exercising
1. What is your number one insecurity? My weight
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body? All the time
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body? Never
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit? All the time
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear? No
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone? I never have
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all? I havnt but I would, yes.
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change? My weight
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious? Yes
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous? A bit
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy? Yes
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person? Maybe
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls? Yeh
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot? Maybe. Probably
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family? Sometimes
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure? Yep
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident? Insecure
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things? Yep
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities? No, they wont care
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what? My weight
1. Sometimes my appearance
2. On a down day
3. On a great day
4. Yes
5. Yes
6. I don’t hook up with people
7. Never have
8. No ’cause God made me the way I am for a reason
9. I’ve never gone
10. Sometimes
11. When they used to control me
12. No I don’t think so
13. Yes as long as I’d seen them around and never heard anything about them being cheaters
14. Maybe a little, it would depend on if he was joking or being serious
15. No
16. Nope
17. I think I’m more confident about myself
18. sometimes
19. No
20. No, just if I’m having a down day
1. What is your number one insecurity?
My whole appearance
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body?
In the summer when I have to wear shorts
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body?
When it’s covered up
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit?
Nearly all the time i wear one
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear?
No
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone?
Never hooked up with someone because of my insecurities
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all?
Never gotten naked with a guy
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change?
The size of my legs, bum, tummy and what my face looks like
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious?
Huh?
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous?
It used to but I couldnt care less anymore, I’ve been with them for 5 years
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy?
Mmmmmmh not really
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person?
Sometimes yes
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls?
Depends on if they had…..a reputation
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot?
Not really cause I would call other guys hot
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family?
Never
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure?
Never because I cant tell them how insecure i am
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident?
More insecure
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things?
Sometimes
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities?
No
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what?
I dont know
1. What is your number one insecurity?
my butt
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body?
when i wear dresses…my legs…
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body?
when i wear wear my favorite outfits
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit?
yes
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear?
only certain friends
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone?
yes
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all?
um i haven’t…yet
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change?
yes actually i have a lot thighs, stomach, boobs, butt, nose, laugh, voice
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious?
haven’t gone
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous?
Yes
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy?
no
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person?
no
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls?
yes
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot?
a little
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family?
no
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure?
no
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident?
i try to be confident but i’m insecure
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things?
no
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities?
no
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what? my nose
1. What is your number one insecurity? on talking
2. When do you feel the most insecure about your body? when i feel fat
3. When do you feel the most confident about your body? at night
4. Have you ever felt really self-conscious in a bathing suit? yes
5. Would you be comfortable letting friends see you in your underwear? yes
6. Do you ever feel insecure when you’re hooking up with someone? no
7. If you’ve ever gotten naked with a dude, did you feel insecure at all? never got naked
8. Is there one thing about your body you wish you could change? yes
9. Does going to the gyno make you feel self-conscious? yes
10. Does talking in front of your whole class make you feel totally nervous? sometimes
11. Have your insecurities ever led to jealousy? no
12. Do you think you’re a really jealous person? no
13. Would you be okay with your boyfriend having friends who are girls? yes
14. Would it bother you if your boyfriend called other girls hot? not really
15. Do you ever feel insecure about your family? sometimes
16. Has anyone ever called you out on being insecure? no
17. Do you think you’re more insecure or more confident? in the middle
18. Do you ever feel insecure about your opinion on things? yes
19. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist for your insecurities? sometimes
20. Is there one thing about you that you think you’ll always feel insecure about no matter what? no