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Thinking of having sex with an older guy? Think again. | Source: Shutterstock
Why? Even if you willingly have sex with an older guy, there are all sorts of risks–including your own legal dramas, and potential child pornography charges if you take nude pics of yourself–or if he snaps some of you. Someone worth going to bed with, if he really likes you, will wait til he can do it legally.
We feel bad for one girl in particular who was foolish enough to have sex with an older guy–and this guy was way older! Ready to get creeped out? A 24-year-old guy named Christopher Bradley Nutt (go ahead and laugh, we’ll wait) found a 12-year-old girl online and engaged in all sorts of sex with her at his house. Having sex with an older guy is risky enough, but this girl was half his age!
As if that weren’t bad enough, the girl’s parents found out in the worst possible way. She went missing and they figured out where she was through her cell phone convos with pals–and the cops came to arrest Nutt and take her home. Based on the report, as if the girl’s experience wasn’t traumatic enough as is, she and Nutt clearly had to talk to cops in pretty graphic detail about what went down in his bedroom, because each sex act is a different criminal charge for him. Can you imagine having total strangers–and your parents!–know in detail exactly what you did when you had sex with an older guy (or anyone)? The ick factor is mega high. Talk about humiliating.
To top everything off, just take a look at this douche. He clearly thinks he’s hot stuff, but uh, hello? If he were as hot as he thinks he is, he could get someone legal. And that’s something to remember if you’re ever considering having sex with an older guy: Is there a reason he’s not with someone his own age?
The answer is probably a resounding “yes.” Especially if he still takes pictures of himself in his bathroom mirror.
Have you ever had sex with an older guy? Would you have sex with an older guy? What would you do if your parents found out you had sex with an older guy? Tell us in the comments!
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I had sex with an older man and i didn’t feel anything but pain. I guess because he was my first. I love him tho.
She would maybe curse me out ask questions and report to the police then ask for me to go to kids jail(Jove)
How judgemental. This is how we all get brainwashed by do gooders. I was 12 too when I started this relationship with a guy more than twice my age. He isnt a douche bag or a creep or gross or a perv. How dare you say such things. Just because someone is younger does not mean they have been manipulated or taken advantage of. Is this some kind of brainwashing forum and a way to get all younger girls to conform to some sort of stupid advice or norm? Yes there are older guys who are bad but there are many younger guys and guys our age who are awful too. Yes there is a law but do you think we care? We will fall in love with who we want to be with. It isnt any ones business and certainly not for the law to decide whats right or wrong for us, especially these days when we are so aware of all the bad things that happen. Please dont make all of us sound dumb and silly.
what a whole lot of negative stuff .; why presume the guy is a failure and cant ‘get someone of his own age’ maybe he liked the girl or maybe he he just found it really horny to make love to a 12 year old .. in a number of countries worldwide .. mexico etc they have decided that a 12 year old is perfectly mature enough to have sex. if nature designed the female body to be capable of sex at 12 then that should be fine .. all the hysteria about ‘not being mature enough mentally’ is complete nonsense .; sex is a simple , normal , physical act which once completed is genrerally forgotten about and the couple move on ..
I’m 16 and I have had sex and done the other sexual stuff with a 20 year old who has a girlfriend and is also my next door neighbour. I really like taking and seeing him but I do think it is a big weird that he wants to see me, but he’s not the sort of boy that would use me.
I’m 16 and I’ve had sex with my PE teacher who is 47 and married. It may be illegal and he may be using me for sex but boy does it feel good when we do it.
So lexi do you still do it with him or have you moved on?