What do you do when he tells you sincerely from the bottom of his heart, he doesn’t know how it happened, because he hates his ex-girlfriend (this i know, because she cheated on him). He told my he hates himself and never thought he would ever cheat on me and that he sees us being together for a long time.

Alcohol was a factor in this. And I do believe, that had he been sober, he would not have even approached her…. But yet, I never thought I would be in this position.

It was not sex, but it was a kiss. It was not some random girl, it was his ex girlfriend. Even if I were to forgive, I don’t think I can forget… and even if we stay together, I don’t really know how it will work

I think cheating can’t be accidental. When you’re intoxicated you do things you can’t do when you’re sober. If you’re are dating someone and you find someone else hot or you like them also, intoxicaded you will have the guts to flirt, kiss or even have sex with that person, is she/he allows. You get back to yourself and then you regret, you feel sorry and bla bla bla. Then you choose the easy excuse ” I was drunk/high ” but still , you wanted !! So for me cheating
can´t be accidental !!

I think cheating can’t be accidental. When you’re intoxicated you do things you can’t do when you’re sober. If you’re are dating someone and you find someone else hot or you like them also, intoxicaded you will have the guts to flirt, kiss or even have sex with that person, is she/he allows. You get back to yourself and then you regret, you feel sorry and bla bla bla. Then you choose the easy excuse ” I was drunk/high ” but still , you wanted !! So for me cheating can´t be accidental

I would drink in moderation and watch other people get drunk while I’m having a good time socializing.

When I feel like I’ve had enough, Ill stop!

NOW LOL, when I’m with my guy I’ll do both.

I have a good time with only him…