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When is too soon to say love? My boyfriend hasn’t directly said it to me. I’ll jokingly say, “I hate you” and he’s all “Awwww love you too!” But it made me think, when would be an appropriate time to say it?
I personally have a sort of fear of the word. I don’t want to say it before I’m sure. I know I like him a lot. I have no doubt about that. However, I don’t want to say “love” and get mixed feelings later on. So even when I’m positive that’s what I’m feeling one day, I’m not sure if I’ll have the confidence to say it still after that anytime soon.
So the questions:
When is it too soon to say Love?
If you were friends or best friends for a time prior would that have an affect on it?
If you don’t feel ready to say it how can you communicate that clearly without hurting your significant other’s feelings or the relationship?
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