Although you can’t control where guys are going to look, you don’t have to hide under Spanx or tight undergarments that constrict. You shouldn’t be ashamed of your desirable endowments! Instead — if I may play your straight Tim Gunn for a moment — there are ways to tastefully accommodate your curves without showing them off. Don’t feel like you need to hide your awesome bod for anyone!
But no matter what you decide to wear, the more confident and self-accepting you are, the more guys will pay attention to you for all the right reasons. When you’re able to own your body without apologies, you can more easily focus on being the real you, and guys find that self-assuredness attractive. Just remember that while no dude is immune from stealing a glance now and then, any guy who’s incapable of seeing who you really are isn’t right for you in the first place!