Comments on: How Do I Get Over Him?: Your Complete Guide

By: Nelly

Nelly — Wed, 12 Dec 2012 03:00:45 +0000

After being in relationship with him for ten years,he broke up with me,I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a love spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex
called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is (VOODUSLOVESPELL@ GMAIL.COM) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

By: heartbrokenGirl

heartbrokenGirl — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 20:31:17 +0000

I was in a LDR for 7 months.I have known him for 5 years prior. We used to date back then, didn’t work. no hard feeling on each other(atleast that’s what i thought- I was the one who broke up with him the first time) We both moved on. Started reconnecting on FB, before we knew it, we got back together-not a good idea!!

It started pretty well. I felt he genuinely loved me. Went to him twice, spent time with him but the thing is he never had time to come and visit me in my city. I accepted his excuses. After all, isn’t that what you do when you love somebody?

He wanted me to moved in with him but I tried looking for jobs in his town unfortunately I couldn’t find one in my field. i also go to school part time so if I move that means I have to wait for a year to be a in-state resident. There were a lot of giving up/sacrificing I had to do. is it worth it?

So I asked him if he could wait for a year, at least i’ll be done with school and maybe get a better job if I do so. He wanted to take care of me, I told him I want to contribute to be his partner, thus I need to finish school. He seemed to understand. A month after my last visit, i felt like he was pulling away. He said he was just stressed out at school and work. He goes to school part time and works full time as well. I started to worry. He used to text/call before the day ends but it’s fading.

Then one day he broke up with me for some lame excuse I couldn’t comprehend. I tried to get him back but he kept pushing me away. Until one day he text me to stop calling or texting him otherwise he’ll report me as harassing communication. Can you believe this guy?
How can you do that to somebody you allegedly loved? I am so hurt and heartbroken on this treatment.

I know it will get better. I question myself if I made the right decision of not moving with 3 months ago, but that just does not help me move on. He dropped me like a piece of shit I should do the same on him…

Goodluck to us, I don’t deserve this guy.I deserve even better!

By: shana

shana — Tue, 27 Nov 2012 18:45:38 +0000

Hey I was totaly head over heals inlove with my bf he was 17 years older than me nd he changed my outlook on life crazy but true I’m still not over him. Some times in life u meet that 1 guy that teaches u how to love hard nd in the end people end up waiting for that same guy or some1 just like him. I’m still singel nd still waiting for the same passionate hard love my x gave too meee..*sad face*

By: Anita

Anita — Fri, 19 Oct 2012 22:56:41 +0000

I can’t thank you enough for all that you have done for me. About 4 months ago I and my partner split up, we had both made BIG mistakes in our relationship. He ended up moving away from me to pursue a new life. I knew in my heart that he would be the only one to make me happy. I was relieved when I found your site and what you had to offer. I requested reunite love spell and within three days he relocated back to our hometown where I still lived. We immediately reconnected and move in with each other. Our wedding date is set for Summer 2012. Expect you to contact him via email ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com when you are in similar problem like this.

Thank you! Anita, United Kingdom.

By: Kimberly

Kimberly — Sun, 14 Oct 2012 22:37:51 +0000

Kinzie,
I know this hurts now, but it seems he had his mind made up and did not randomly come up with this information out of the blue. So that being said, time will tell. Oh the test of time. While the clock is ticking you need to get mixing. Do not hibernate for too long or beg him back. Cut all communications, don’t try to be friends or buddy’s right away. Cut all communicatins why? So you can heal, thats why. You can only move on in life if Kinzie cares about Kinzie. You can do this Kinzie. You are a strong, beautiful young lady, and most important I believe in you.
Next add a new dynamic to your life; pick up a new sport, hobby, musical instrument.. go out with healthy solid friends and family members. Style your hair different, do something special for you. Because you never want to be with some one anyway if they don’t want to be with you, right? You go girl, you’ve got this. I love you.

By: Kimberly

Kimberly — Sun, 14 Oct 2012 22:27:30 +0000

Dearest Melissa,
Now that things have settled down a bit, I think its time for you to follow the above guidlines to, “How I get over Him.”
1) completely avoid contact 2) get active ie. work out; release endorphines that way 3) Go out with family, siblings, solid friends stay busy (a busy mind is never a play ground for sadness or stress) 4) Give self a makeover (buy a new top, do your makeup different, style your hair. 5) Never forget how beautiful you are inside and out.
You can do this.. Oh and Melissa, don’t forget to journal.. this will help your mind understand exatly how oddly he’s been acting and how you are more mature (you deserve better) Chin up, keep smiling, I love you.

By: Heartbroken2345

Heartbroken2345 — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 03:36:14 +0000

I have been really good friends with this one guy and I really thought we were falling for each other. Then when I finally asked him out.. he lied and said his parents don’t let him date. It just really hurt because I saw another girl ask him and he said yes. It just breaks my heart that he had to lie about it.

By: khaffy

khaffy — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 21:07:36 +0000

I really nid ur advice ugently,am a lady of 31 in love wit a guy of 25.he neva told me his age b4 it started coz we av been a gud frnd b4 our love affair started,I loved him so much dat I tink I would die if he leaves my life.now he told me he can neva & eva settle down wit me bcos of our age diff wch he just told me.dose age matas wen it comes to love & marriage?am so confused & empty,I love him so much wot shld I do?is it dat he neva loved me?we r 6 mnt old.what surprise me most is diz guy was vry caring,he’s bn der 4 me.I met him wen I was hrt broken & he stood by me now he wants to leave my life.I can’t sleep day & 9t.nid help plssssssss

By: Melissa

Melissa — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 19:06:16 +0000

I was dating this guy for awhile and then the last month we were together he started acting weird, and ignored me alot. But then one day he just broke up with me all of a sudden saying he didnt feel the same about me anymore. Then a week later he called and said he missed me but we had to take a break for awhile and eventually get back together… He finally admitted to cheating on me with this one girl, and now they are dating, right afer we broke up. He then started calling me saying that his feeling of love for me would never go away, which doesnt make sense to me since he broke up with me because he didnt feel the same anymore… But then one night i got mad because i felt like i was being dragged on when he already moved on. So then he flipped out stopped calling me baby, saying he wanted his stuff back and that he doesnt love me. Whenever I talk to him I pretend like I dont care, and he gets mad that i dont care.. why is that? I mean he even said that he loved his new girlfriends wayy more than he ever loved me and they just started dating.. what should i do? he wants his necklace and rings back but i dont wannt to give them back..

By: Kinzie

Kinzie — Sun, 07 Oct 2012 00:02:34 +0000

I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He was my first love. He’s a year and 2 months older than me and he’s a senior in highschool and I’m a junior. His friends didn’t like me and it put a lot of stress on our relationship, but even through that I was so happy with him. He planned our future together and we picked out our kids names. (Jayco Bryan and Jessica Dee) Everything was perfect. Then I went away for a weekend and I had no cell service but would text him off wifi as much as I could. He started distancing himself. We were supposed to hang out on a tuesday and he stopped texting me. So after about 7 hours of not hearing from him I had walekd to his house and we were talking in his front yard for 2 hours then just randomly he said were breaking up when he leaves to college, and I didn’t say anything since that’s still like 9 months away then he changed the subject asking what I wanted to do for my birthday then 10 minutes later he broke up with me (6 days before my bday) and then walked inside. I was crushed and it hurts so much. We broke up sept. 25 2012. I love him so much and I always will. I miss him so much and want him back. But he seems happier without me. I randomly cry through out the day and I just wish this never happened… ): I’m heart broken.