How do I get over him? Ugh. Breakups are tough. Even if it’s not dramatic, even it’s mutual–at the end of the day, they still hurt. And if you really like the guy or gal? They hurt lot. And it’s so much worse when it’s someone you see around all the time–it’s like your split keeps getting thrown in your face, so you have no choice but to be miserable… Or do you?
There are ways to make a breakup hurt less and for a lot less time.
The main thing? You have to truly want to get over him, not just go through the motions and secretly wish you’ll get back together later!
Once you get to that point, if you play your cards right, instead of asking yourself “How do I get over him?” he’ll be asking, “How did she get over me so fast?!” Except by then, you won’t care that he said that, because you’ll be over him. Funny how that works, right? Now read on for all the steps to get a lame ex out of your hair–and your heart–for good!